Avoid losers at all times, bruhs.

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One of the biggest mistakes of my teenage years was not being careful about who I associated with. All you young posters please take heed :flabbynsick:
I shook the dead weight like

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I was cool with everybody but very selective about who I hung with always. Small circles to this day. Nobody around that is questionable.
 

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Meh, Jesus hung with losers:yeshrug:....so i guess im sumn' like a saint:skip:

My friends are my friends....Lowlives

The homey nas said it best

"Can see myself in presidential campaign dinners. But im passing blunts around a bunch if gang members":whew:

The homey future said loudest
'Cause im always reppin for that looooooow life:myman:
 
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Imagine how much more forward thinking and informed yall would be if you if you only posted in HL.

I love how you hl dudes seem to think y'all have some sort of monopoly on intelligence

:russ:

Apparently the key to knowledge is Napoleon spamming neoliberal propoganda all day

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I was originally going to cosign the op's post but something about the post bothered me for real.

The message is wrong actually because now when I think about it, you have to be careful in terms of what we define as success, on what being successful is, what someone did to become successful, and a whole lot of other shyt. I have to put "success" in quotes.

What do you think is success? Is it having three cars and a mansion or being able to achieve happiness and peace from within while living your true passion despite not making a lot of money? Success and failure are subjective.

Theres plenty of losers and scumbags who are "successful" that I'm quite positively sure are to be avoided at all cost. Keep in mind there's plenty of folks that had to do some despicable shyt to be successful. I think a persons character and personality is more important in terms of determining who to be around. Harvey Weinstein is "successful", Donald Trump is "successful", and we all know about them. The examples are countless. Some of the most miserable and ugliest people in this world are "successful". They have no code of ethics. Marlo Stanfield would be considered to be "successful". Plenty of "successful" people are not happy.

I think this post is more centered around the ego than it is from the heart. Yes, you do have to network, have to feed off of peoples energies, make moves and etc with other people depending on the situation to meet whatever goals you have. Hopefully these goals are positive.

But a lot of it depends on the person themselves. Someone who is ambitious, motivated, has tenacity, willpower, patience and a whole bunch of good traits centered towards getting what they want done.. that's more important than just the people you hang around. That one person can actually inspire other people to pull themselves up when they aren't in the right state of mind to get what they have to get done.


I agree and I feel like "success" from a general point of view can be scripted and manufactured. Wealth being an indication of good character is an actual myth as success can just be smoke and mirrors. I would rather be around people who are like minded instead of trying to fake it with people who are the opposite when it comes to social beliefs and ethics.
 

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In a way it's kind of weird people believe that they need to associate with ambitious people to be successful.

YOU need to an ambitious person to be successful. Hanging around someone with an admirable mindset really won't change a person that's the opposite in the blink of an eye.







I think.
Being around ambitious successful people forces you to stop accepting excuses and failure
 

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My kids aunt (their mom's sister) needs to hear this advice lol...

She just turned 17 two weeks ago and she's on a slow spiral into a tough life for the last two years. Got caught fukking a guy at home while skipping school, got caught thru text having a sexual relationship with a 24-year old, suspended for cursing out a teacher, overdosing on pills, blindside assaulting and stomping a girl out at the bus stop, skipping school for weed sessions, etc. These are only the things I know about in the last two years, every few months there's a new issue with her...

I tried to tell my kids mom how she and her family should respond to her. She obviously doesn't have the best influences around her, setting herself up to have a really difficult introduction to adulthood. She gonna have to learn the hard way and so will her family...
 

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You are the company you keep. It's not just a saying.
But it is... When I was younger I would hear stories from "failures" about the "successful" who would be in the same crackhouses as them on the weekend or calling them up to cop work for them. They were all junkies together. .
 
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