Aye, is it harmful to flirt with someone you really aren't attracted to??????

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Like is it wrong to flirt hard with a broad you wouldn't knock off on your worst night?

What if she seems to like it and it makes her day?

 

[Ayatollah Watts]

dunno, you might catch the fukkits.

don't say that you won't.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i'm not a fan of leading women on even though women will do that to men a lot. the simple fact of the matter is if i'm not attracted to them, i'm not going to pretend to be just so it'll make her feel better while it makes me feel worse...

 

[ugksam]

yeah it is. girls like this don't often get hit on so they will try to take it further than you want. i used to do this with an older bartender at a place i went to. All my drinks became free, i thought i was but she quickly became too annoying for me to want to deal with.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

i'm not a fan of leading women on even though women will do that to men a lot. the simple fact of the matter is if i'm not attracted to them, i'm not going to pretend to be just so it'll make her feel better while it makes me feel worse...

why do u feel worse about doing it?


i feel good knowing that i made her feel good

 

[HookersandIceCream]

How are you green again?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

why do u feel worse about doing it?


i feel good knowing that i made her feel good

because i know i don't want her, that's why. yet i'm giving the impression that i do. keep in mind, it's not like i'm saying i wouldn't talk to her or anything, under normal circumstances. but flirting is a different attitude all together. and if it's someone i don't feel naturally attracted to, i feel like i'm forcing it (because in reality, i am)...

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

How are you green again?

u can neg me tho and put it back in piru status

because i know i don't want her, that's why. yet i'm giving the impression that i do. keep in mind, it's not like i'm saying i wouldn't talk to her or anything, under normal circumstances. but flirting is a different attitude all together. and if it's someone i don't feel naturally attracted to, i feel like i'm forcing it (because in reality, i am)...

I feel you, one one of them serious dudes. I can respect it.

 

[mbewane]

Breh I don't even manage to flirt with the chicks I am attracted to

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Thats a female trait, why would a grown man flirt with a woman. you either want to get her or not. The sh1t is basic all that other mess is for females who love attention or suffer from mental erosion.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

yeah it is. girls like this don't often get hit on so they will try to take it further than you want. i used to do this with an older bartender at a place i went to. All my drinks became free, i thought i was but she quickly became too annoying for me to want to deal with.

this reminds me of something i've been dealing with for the past couple of weeks. there's this bar/restaurant i go to after i finish my gigs and i normally go there to get something to eat. and, it just so happens, i'm normally there either on thursdays, fridays or saturdays (since that's normally when i gig on that side of town). and there's this one bartender who works on those days and she's been trying to give me free things. last week, i finally let her give me my meal free after resisting for the past month. the difference between her and the premise of the thread is that i would probably fukk her but i wouldn't go out of my way to do it. but, now she's kind of put me in a position where i'm almost indebted to her and i have to give her some attention just so i don't look like an a$$hole.

i guess i don't have to feel that way, i could either just act normal or go for the kill but i try to be conscious of what everyone is doing and what they want. and the thing is, i'd fukk her, but i don't want to go out of my way and hype myself up to do it. and that's only because i know all i'd do is fukk her. i wouldn't stay with her...

 

[ugksam]

this reminds me of something i've been dealing with for the past couple of weeks. there's this bar/restaurant i go to after i finish my gigs and i normally go there to get something to eat. and, it just so happens, i'm normally there either on thursdays, fridays or saturdays (since that's normally when i gig on that side of town). and there's this one bartender who works on those days and she's been trying to give me free things. last week, i finally let her give me my meal free after resisting for the past month. the difference between her and the premise of the thread is that i would probably fukk her but i wouldn't go out of my way to do it. but, now she's kind of put me in a position where i'm almost indebted to her and i have to give her some attention just so i don't look like an a$$hole.

i guess i don't have to feel that way, i could either just act normal or go for the kill but i try to be conscious of what everyone is doing and what they want. and the thing is, i'd fukk her, but i don't want to go out of my way and hype myself up to do it. and that's only because i know all i'd do is fukk her. i wouldn't stay with her...

yeah now you gotta keep being nice to her, she is going to expect that. thing you gotta realize about a girl like that is she is desperate in a way. shes giving you free shyt[possibly risking her job] to try to get some dikk. So if you go that route and fukk her you might end up looking for a new place to eat at after your gigs.

In my case the free shyt i was getting wasnt worth the pretending to be nice to this woman i didnt care about at all. i dont go back to that place much but when i do she makes a big deal about how she "doesnt see me enough" and she tries to sit a my table and have long ass conversations about shyt i dont care about.

 

[Miggs]

Nah its cool and can be beneficial...she might be a decent connect or have some friends...and truth is you can very easily spin those type of relations into convenient coitus...I know you said wouldnt hit but lets be real in a slow period youd knock down sh1t you ordinarily wouldnt...

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Breh I don't even manage to flirt with the chicks I am attracted to

Nah its cool and can be beneficial...she might be a decent connect or have some friends...and truth is you can very easily spin those type of relations into convenient coitus...I know you said wouldnt hit but lets be real in a slow period youd knock down sh1t you ordinarily wouldnt...

brah im in Afghanistan and still wouldnt fukk this broad

 

[iamstr8fire]

If its out of the normal course of your interactions then I'd say yes. You don't want her to be all when she realizes it aint going nowhere.