Intuitively I can understand and empathize with her POV. BUT there’s a couple caveats to this.
1. I think she might think a bit too much of herself lmao. This isn’t a Michelle Obama situation where her qualifications separate of her husband speaks for itself and everyone knows this. The endeavors we know of Ayesha outside of Steph from her cooking show, to her acting, her rotund face, hell to her style has fallen flat. And it might be an easy excuse to blame it on “my husband is famous”, but idk man she might just be average. The idea that she would be a hotshot outside of Steph as an individual for all extents and purposes is unfounded. There’s nothing wrong about wondering what if, but some genuine perspective goes a long way IMO
2. Publicly stating this is foul knowing damn well if Steph said what you have said verbatim you would not be ok with it. Keep that between you and the therapist.
Having honest conversations about things you wish could have gone differently in your life is fine. That’s human. I think doing so to a global audience when your husband is a multi-millionaire, for all we know all around good guy, and we have no evidence of what your individual accomplishments would even look like lacks some tact however.