ayo...why does it seem like black frats and sororities are more gang-like than distinguished orgs?

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And OP while making points will be ostracized. Would be nice if the keyboard militants wouldn't come in here slinging negs and single sentence insults like other threads usually result in.
dudes take that neg shyt waay too serious lol. Like okay, you negged me...and? lol.

My point is definitely something borne out of observation and not just some blind hatred for black frats and sororities. I like the idea behind them but i definitely think its not being executed right anymore.

When you observe most of the folks that were in these frats while you're in school out here not doing shyt with their life but just acting like being part of these frats is all there was to their identity, you start going "wow...is there all there is ??".


I definitely think they should move away from almost exclusively recruiting the cool type with no true future and get more towards the kids with future that will end up in top places in society. That should be the purpose of these organizations...upward mobility and education and pulling others up the ladder. Not dumbing out and being the life of the party and fukking bytches and trying to pass off that 1 hour volunteering they do a month as something great.

They can definitely find a balance between the two if they try.
 

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dudes take that neg shyt waay too serious lol. Like okay, you negged me...and? lol.

My point is definitely something borne out of observation and not just some blind hatred for black frats and sororities. I like the idea behind them but i definitely think its not being executed right anymore.

When you observe most of the folks that were in these frats while you're in school out here not doing shyt with their life but just acting like being part of these frats is all there was to their identity, you start going "wow...is there all there is ??".


I definitely think they should move away from almost exclusively recruiting the cool type with no true future and get more towards the kids with future that will end up in top places in society. That should be the purpose of these organizations...upward mobility and education and pulling others up the ladder. Not dumbing out and being the life of the party and fukking bytches and trying to pass off that 1 hour volunteering they do a month as something great.

They can definitely find a balance between the two if they try.
Yea, it definitely isn't about the best and brightest anymore, so much as who can infuse the most cred as @Smoke stated.

And about negs, I don't mind them, but I hate fukkbois negging and not at least posting a response. It is good I don't have mod powers because they would be catching 24's for negging and running.
 

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am i describing a gang or a frat?

its stupid to say frats act like gangs because they're pretty much the same thing just different resources and methods
 

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How about talking about the rape culture in white fraternities? I think that's more important

Im not saying OP is right, never knew many blacks in frats. But if someone wants to discuss something they see as in issue why cant he want to discuss that. Why do we have to talk about white frats. I really can not stand bullshyt deflection.
 

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I always ask my self were the street gangs modeled after the black frats or the black frats modeled after the street gangs in an attempt to look cool. Cause the similarities are definitely there
 

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It's the basically the generation shift. Instead of recruiting the top of the line educated brother as they would've years ago, they basically want the popular kids now.

Aside from that...i wanted to be a Que so bad in college :mjcry:


I remember reading somewhere that one highly exclusive club at either Harvard or Princeton use to always bring in one black football player every year.

So really, even the white groups always wanted the most popular ones
 

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It's the basically the generation shift. Instead of recruiting the top of the line educated brother as they would've years ago, they basically want the popular kids now.

Aside from that...i wanted to be a Que so bad in college :mjcry:

Crazy shyt is, these black frats are making the popular nikka, who slacks off academically on a normal basis, extended life on being relevant in life. Its like people want high school to continue for another 40 years.
 

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is it just me or do they seem like they are crips and bloods compared to say other distinguished organization for betterment of its members and people.

These guys are always or atleast always try to appear tough and intimidating and quick to resort to violence in defense of their set.

You really dont see that with frats and sororities from "other" groups...i remember in college wondering about this.
Even the folks that they recruit are always the socially cool types as opposed to the ones that are really on the educated and bright future ahead types.

anyone here part of a black frat/sorority that can help me understand?
they aren't all like that. those that do believe they're defending the history of their organizations, even though their actions often make a mockery of em.

with some people they let their frat/sorority change them for the worst; believe that they will move up the social ladder (or get more p*ssy/dikk), even though the main purposes for these orgs is to change them for the better by becoming better humanitarians.

hopefully this ends, but it all rests on the deans that admit them.
personally speaking, i joined my org to serve the black community and build business relationships with other like minded people. most folks join for the colors, the dances, the elitist attitude that makes them popular :ehh:


what do you think, @MurderSheWrote
 

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they aren't all like that. those that do believe they're defending the history of their organizations, even though their actions often make a mockery of em.

with some people they let their frat/sorority change them for the worst; believe that they will move up the social ladder (or get more p*ssy/dikk), even though the main purposes for these orgs is to change them for the better by becoming better humanitarians.

hopefully this ends, but it all rests on the deans that admit them.
personally speaking, i joined my org to serve the black community and build business relationships with other like minded people. most folks join for the colors, the dances, the elitist attitude that makes them popular :ehh:


what do you think, @MurderSheWrote
:ohhh:uh-oh.
 

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