Ok. You do know that you don't have to agree with a point for it to be valid? "She doesn't deserve acceptance," "Black women like her... don't deserve acceptance," "She is hard to even tolerate," thank you,
you are proving that her points are valid.

Remember, validity= having a sound basis in logic or fact. You, too, have made valid points. There are some that I may not agree with, for whatever reason, but they are valid.
I will say once more, and leave this here...let's agree to disagree. (Interpret that however you want it, sir.)