1. she has 2 kids i was helping out with them when they med evac her cuz my mother was sick so she was with her spouse
while i helped out with the kids and my own 4 kids while my wife was at work who does 16 hr shifts on weekends so I'm alone doing all this
2. i rather my mother go then me cuz motherly love is what she needs and she rather me take care of her kids cuz I'm good with kids and responsible
3. dont make assumptions if u dont know the facts
4. re read what i wrote till u understand this like them books for dummies HOW NOT TO MAKE ASSUMPTIONS FOR DUMMIES should work for u