Well stable to me doesn't just mean job/career. I'm in the process of ending my career in the military now. Stable to me means where I move/ end up next. I've actually relocated for a woman I wanted to be with once (I was young, and there were other benefits involved for my life/career besides the relationship at the time) but I don't think I could do it again and I can't see/imagine anyone in my love life right now that's willing to do the same if it came down to it.
I don't think there's a woman in my life that loves me like that to do so
Plus, I'm trying to develop new plans and strategies, some that might require me to go overseas and in War Zones/Hostile territories for a few years... I don't think any woman I'm romantically involved with currently is ride or die enough to be with ME during that phase (if it develops)