Be honest: If your partner wanted to break up to sleep with other people, you wouldn't respect them

[JudgeJoeForilla]

i would hate them tbh

Hate can potentially consume a person but I understand your incentive.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I've had it done to me. I took it as I rather be a hoe than a GF and loss all respect for her

Id rather the person I'm with not be a dikk hungry trash bag ho in the first place. Will not respect someone like that.

So if a woman doesn't want to be with you anymore she is a hoe? :biggapls::artumad:

And men are supposed to be the rational and unemotional ones :yadontsay::biggapls:

 

[mcdivit85]

People kill me with the "I would respect them if they had told the truth" or "I would've taken it better if they had just been honest and told me they didn't want to be with me." Lies, lies, lies. If you're taking something away from someone, whether honest or dishonest, they tend to have a problem with it.

Either way, when a person says they don't want to be with someone, they're rejecting that person. Rejection is hard enough from a stranger but it stings heavy when its from someone you care about and/or are in love with.

Imagine a dude telling his chick that he's been with for 3 years who has been good to him that "Hey, we've had a good run, but I'm still not ready to be faithful to one chick. So, I'm ending this relationship and smashing other chicks because that's what I want to do." You think she's going to appreciate his honesty in that moment? Or even a month later? Or three months later when she's still crying over the dude who had a stronger desire to smash randoms than to be with her?

He was honest. How many chicks aren't going to cause an uproar and then clown him over leaving "something good for some p*ssy"?

Brehs, imagine your chick who you've stopped dating other women for, worked OT so you can buy her nice things and bought a engagement ring for hit you "Tyrone, I want to be honest with you since we're engaged and I respect our relationship. Look, you're a great guy who has done so much for me, but I don't think you're right for me. Yea we've had a good three years but I want someone whose got more going on and I would be lying if I said otherwise. So, this is the end." You going to appreciate her candor?

People talk about wishing their ex was "honest" about their intentions as a means of protecting their ego. Not because they would've better handled Tyrone being straight up and telling her that he was more attracted to her cousin than her and that they got a place together.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

No matter what reason somebody has to break up with you you're going to be salty about it. It just is what it is. Hell, even if it's your fault, you're gonna take it personal.

Exactly. There's no way to not be an "a$$hole" if you're telling someone you don't want to be with them.

Peace

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

So if a woman doesn't want to be with you anymore she is a hoe? :biggapls::artumad:

And men are supposed to be the rational and unemotional ones :yadontsay::biggapls:

If she wants to dump you for the sake of getting dikk from multiple people she is a ho. Keep in mind we're not talking about any deeper reason for wanting to break up with someone other than just sex and why are you singling out females in your posts? You're obviously just some sexist troll with nothing better to do but cape for ho's in an attempt to defend them were they clearly should be entered. I've seen what kind of poster you are.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If she wants to dump you for the sake of getting dikk from multiple people she is a ho. Keep in mind we're not talking about any deeper reason for wanting to break up with someone other than just sex and why are you singling out females in your posts? You're obviously just some sexist troll with nothing better to do but cape for ho's in an attempt to defend them were they clearly should be entered. I've seen what kind of poster you are.

By this logic, everyone who breaks up with someone is a hoe, male or female. After all, nobody breaks up with somebody to never date anybody again. It doesn't matter why she is breaking up with you. Eventually there will be new dikk in the picture, at which point in your eyes she will be a hoe

So people should just stay in miserable relationships with people they don't want to be with, just so their lame ass exes won't call them hoes

 

[Remote]

It's not about bravery

Would you rather get cheated on or dumped?

Exactly.
It isn't about bravery.

That's why it wouldn't be "cowardly" in the quote I was referring to.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

By this logic, everyone who breaks up with someone is a hoe, male or female. After all, nobody breaks up with somebody to never date anybody again. So like I said, if a woman breaks up with you, she is a hoe

Re-read I specifically said people who break up to ho around are just that ho's.

 

[mcdivit85]

This isn't the convo

If you invested feelings and time into a relationship and instead of cheating the person ends the relationship to fukk with other people you wouldn't just rationalize it and shrug your shoulders

Your feeling towards the person and the situation would closely mirror those feeling you would had if the person cheated

Yup.

If you've been with someone for 5 years. History. Good and bad times. Vacations together. Live together. Families know each other. Friends know each other. And that person, after all of this, says that they want to end it because they're "not ready to settle down" i.e. "I want to date other people besides you." Are you going to react well to that simply because they were honest instead of cheated?

Because both are saying the same thing...."I want to experience other people besides you."

Peace

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

This is what some of you are trying to defend.

 

[Ain't That Something]

So easy to say

You guys are clowns

So you rather them cheat on you? I'm not saying the shyt wouldn't hurt but my health is more important then hurt feelings. She needs to do me the favors and leave and not risk my health if she care an iota about me.

 

[Raava]

Exactly.
It isn't about bravery.

That's why it wouldn't be "cowardly" in the quote I was referring to.

It is cowardly if you are afraid of being referred to as an a$$hole, not being liked or not want to face the consequences of the truth so you lie

 

[Ain't That Something]

You're gonna resent it either way.
What's the difference?

H.I.V, Gonorrhea, Herpes, Syphilis, and so on and so on

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

It is cowardly if you are afraid of being referred to as an a$$hole, not being liked or not want to face the consequences of the truth so you lie

Neither scenario deserves respect. Can't respect ho's.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Yup.

If you've been with someone for 5 years. History. Good and bad times. Vacations together. Live together. Families know each other. Friends know each other. And that person, after all of this, says that they want to end it because they're "not ready to settle down" i.e. "I want to date other people besides you." Are you going to react well to that simply because they were honest instead of cheated?

Because both are saying the same thing...."I want to experience other people besides you."

Peace

Regardless of what reason someone says they want to end a relationship, ultimately if they want to end a relationship it's because they want to be with someone else. Whether they explicitly say it is irrelevant and doesn't make it hurt any less.