Be honest, is your woman “fun”?

[Black Mamba]

pretty fun tbh
She’ll play video games with me
Outgoing
We play fight
Always joke with each other.
She is kinda the serious one cuz im a goofball so it kinda balances it out.

shyt is pretty great I definitely could not be with some bored shy afraid to get out of her shell broad and we hit it off right away

 

[Cornershooter]

I once dated a girl who didn’t talk . Not Exaggerating. I would tell a joke she would laugh MAYBE add something if I was lucky then go back to her phone.

She was obsessed with social media and etc . Extremely boring.

After that I made personality a top priority.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Cheaper to keep her. Already have children/ a mortgage. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship that miserable but it’s widespread.

No they complain because they ain’t got shyt goin for themselves and sacrificed they whole identity for a relationship. They’re whole identity is bein married. That’s the only think they have to talk about. Nothing to do with any of that you sayin

 

[Estarossa]

Yeah surprisingly she’s into most of the stuff I am. She looked like a big ass kid when I gave her my old PS4 and some games.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I once dated a girl who didn’t talk . Not Exaggerating. I would tell a joke she would laugh MAYBE add something if I was lucky then go back to her phone.

She was obsessed with social media and etc . Extremely boring.

After that I made personality a top priority.

Unfortunately, that’s 90% of women. Constant social media usage is a red flag. Outside of Facebook, neither of us use it much.

No they complain because they ain’t got shyt goin for themselves and sacrificed they whole identity for a relationship. They’re whole identity is bein married. That’s the only think they have to talk about. Nothing to do with any of that you sayin

Wow, I didn’t know you had access to my WhatsApp group. A lot of assumptions being made.

 

[coldcall]

My woman is actually borderline "too fun" almost like a big kid. She's always excited, laughing and being silly. There are days I just want to kick back, be a boring adult and talk about work or whatever else is weighing heavy on my mind but I can't.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Unfortunately, that’s 90% of women. Constant social media usage is a red flag. Outside of Facebook, neither of us use it much.

Wow, I didn’t know you had access to my WhatsApp group. A lot of assumptions being made.

nikka Shutcho ass up. That’s why dudes complain about they girl it’s projecting. They mad that they sacrificed they identity for a relationship. U puttin shyt out on the public domain and mad at what come back. U just want nikkas to tell you what you wanna hear be honest. Another he man women haters thread.

 

[Uachet]

My wife has her moments, but for the most part yes she is pretty boring. She would probably say the same about me, I would assume. We have been married for 26 years, so we have moved into the realm of repeating the same old stories to each other. I guess that can be a bit hilarious, since we laugh at each other about how old we are getting.

 

[MrSpook]

I’ve had to mute my whatsgroup for the past year. nikkas are constantly complaining about how boring their wives are. Not sexually, just in general.

Like every activity they have to do together is a chore.

“Have to go and do this with the wife. Have to go and do that. Please kill me.”

I don’t know about you, but I’ve been with my lady for a while and even the most mundane of tasks we do together is fun because she’s funny. And we actually share hobbies.

I don’t know how some of you brehs cope being the “entertainment” in a relationship.

Damn. So what have they done to try and tighten that up?


How they allow themselves to get tied down to that?

Why they still with em?

 

[MoveForward]

That’s normal in a marriage after some time… I wouldn’t leave my wife because she is boring, come up with something that isn’t boring that you both will enjoy…

 

[ThrobbingHood]

nikka Shutcho ass up. That’s why dudes complain about they girl it’s projecting. They mad that they sacrificed they identity for a relationship. U puttin shyt out on the public domain and mad at what come back. U just want nikkas to tell you what you wanna hear be honest. Another he man women haters thread.

Ok, I’m clearly dealing with someone who wears a helmet at the dinner table. I’ll leave you to your own devices.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Ok, I’m clearly dealing with someone who wears a helmet at the dinner table. I’ll leave to your own devices.

Nice middle school insult. I can see why you in a henpecked mens therapy group chat. Birds of a feather

 

[ThrobbingHood]

My wife has her moments, but for the most part yes she is pretty boring. She would probably say the same about me, I would assume. We have been married for 26 years, so we have moved into the realm of repeating the same old stories to each other. I guess that can be a bit hilarious, since we laugh at each other about how old we are getting.

Chris Rock has a great bit about that:

Damn. So what have they done to try and tighten that up?


How they allow themselves to get tied down to that?

Why they still with em?

Pressure to get married. Some wanted the trophy wife with no personality. Too many years invested to divorce now.

They use the WhatsApp group to vent. I don’t think it’s all bad but after having children, the fun goes out the window for a lot of them.