Be honest with me brehs... am I wrong from cutting a chick off because she wont let me smash

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Come on bruh....why you gotta do me like that
I want you to see the narrative you are formulating and the patterns you live within. Life can be cyclical and you are gonna keep going in circles, arriving at the same conclusion until you recognize where to make different turns in your journey.

There's a wealth of advice in all of those threads. Are you applying it?

Stop calling yourself a looser
Stop acting thirsty around women
Live your best life.. if you feel stuck in a rut then make a goal for change. Stick to that goal and stay the course to success. Women will come and go. They will be attracted to your drive and focus but you can't shift it for them. Most of all learn from your previous experiences. With women, love etc.

In this example don't play the friend n never do going forward. Like dude above said. A lot of the problem is your mindset . "Let you smash" sounds pathetic. Find a woman that wants to smash you, sex isn't charity breh.
 
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I want you to see the narrative you are formulating and the patterns you live within. Life can be cyclical and you are gonna keep going in circles, arriving at the same conclusion until you recognize where to make different turns in your journey.

There's a wealth of advice in all of those threads. Are you applying it?

Stop calling yourself a looser
Stop acting thirsty around women
Live your best life.. if you feel stuck in a rut then make a goal for change. Stick to that goal and stay the course to success. Women will come and go. They will be attracted to your drive and focus but you can't shift it for them. Most of all learn from your previous experiences. With women, love etc.

In this example don't play the friend n never do going forward. Like dude above said. A lot of the problem is your mindset . "Let you smash" sounds pathetic. Find a woman that wants to smash you, sex isn't charity breh.
True, you right, no lies were told
 
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:snoop: Why you making a thread on a chick that’s feeling you? That’s grade A sucker shyt.

I thought you was working on going to the military. What’s your progress with that
I am. I'm down 5 pounds. got to get to 180. I start out 235.:manny: gotta get kn shape breh
 

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After I got to a certain age I stopped hanging around females like that period like social media engagement is as far as it goes but I don't go on plutonic dates or hang with "besties" shyt like that...I thought it would be cool to hang with a bunch of women if im smashing or not but what i noticed if im hanging with girls i was friend zoned with especially if they were mad then other women had a tendency to automatically place me in the same space from the rip...after I switched gears I saw the shift in perception now i eat a lot better

So we either fukking, going to fukk, or potentially fukking if we hanging out in public ....other than that shoot me a text to let me know how you doing.
 
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After I got to a certain age I stopped hanging around females like that period like social media engagement is as far as it goes but I don't go on plutonic dates or hang with "besties" shyt like that...I thought it would be cool to hang with a bunch of women if im smashing or not but what i noticed if im hanging with girls i was friend zoned with especially if they were mad then other women had a tendency to automatically place me in the same space from the rip...after I switched gears I saw the shift in perception now i eat a lot better

So we either fukking, going to fukk, or potentially fukking if we hanging out in public ....other than that shoot me a text to let me know how you doing.
I feel you it's cool to have female friends tho. The ones you dont want to smash
 
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I mean you seem to be having some kind of remorse over cutting this chick off. She clearly was adding some kind of positive value to your experience?
I liked her. I'm not going to lie. I think I was just thirsty and rushed for sec. It wasnt like she was flaking me or wasnt giving me any play


EDIT:there were other red flags
 
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