Well it's a two way street I also said I was 6'2 and showed her a pic of the reed that looked like a solid 9.5 and thicker than a king size snickers ice cream bar, but I was laying on my back with my stomach sucked in and a pillow under my lower back. So when I take off my timbs and stand behind her I'm not all I was cracked up to be either but what's she gonna say.....shes tired or has a headache? Sheeeeeeit I wish a bytch would