Be your wife’s biggest hater. Smh. #TobiNwigwe

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At first I thought he could have merely wanted to the interviewer to expound to give more praise to his wife. At first I was leaning towards that and but he did sound pressed and tried to clean it up at the end.

In normal social interactions, asking someone to justify why they like something about someone else can be indicative of jealousy or bitterness over them getting attention over you.
That’s the big social skill issue here.

Like a two chicks going out together and somebody pays a compliment to one chick’s outfit, but not yours. If you get up in that person’s face and ask them “Why you like her outfit? Yeeeah, yeeeaah, yeeeah.” Let’s not pretend that wouldn’t be off-putting.
:mjlol:
That lil grunt he made when the reporter said it was great to see another woman because of what it indicated for her as a woman, made me feel like he was about to launch into a speech on why a man can’t get no accolades without women getting attention.

But he could have just been trying to intensely get more screen time for his wife and came off awkward.

:yeshrug:
Keep in mind, I know nothing about who these people even are so I have no context for this relationship. But he definitely seemed like he had something against the interviewer when she mentioned his wife.

Has he had negative interactions with reporters before? Or his wife?

Anyhoo, who are these folks? I’ll watch it again but on first watch, it’s weird.


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He’s an independent rapper with a pro-black, pro-Nigerian, pro-black love and family slant whose been getting bigger buzz over the past 4 years. The woman of course is his wife who also raps and is on a lot of his projects and in his videos.


He was nominated for Best New Artist at The Grammys, they were on the red carpet getting interviewed
 

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He's always with her and family



Y'all tripping. Tobe is all about her and family and knows it sends a powerful message. He knows this. He asked the interviewer to answer her own question since she's a woman and he was actually agreeing with her because it does send a message of positivity to women

Made a joke at the end but if you see this man's actions he puts his wife on a pedestal.
 
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Even tho in any other culture it would be :heh: Imagine being the star and being expected to share the spotlight with your wife. Black folk lost af. That matriarchy shyt

And dont get it twisted, you praise your wife and all that but then she plays her position. Bron a perfect example. Everyone knows how much he bigs her up and praises her but what she do? She smile and play her position. Quiet confidence and elegance. How many times you heard her speak?! That ain’t her role. That’s not what some women want tho, they want to be taken care of not work but when cameras on they want to be one some…


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Your 100% right but after watching the clip I don’t think that was the case here.

I think he truly wanted her to expound to get the message out, i’ve never seen him do anything BUT hype up his wife in interviews and songs. She’s with him ALL THE TIME. She’s with him MORE than you saw Lebron and Savannah early in his career. He basically partnered with her and made her and they’re family part of his brand.

Also i’ve never seen her try to take the spotlight away from him or act as if he’s not the main draw or the reason for their success. She ALWAYS praises him and has his back the way Ciara always supports Russ.


I think this is a non-issue honestly. He might need some slight media training not to come off as overly aggressive but any BLACK person with any common sense who knows anything about him or his brand shouldn’t be reading anything extra into this.
 

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you haven't seen sh*t, you and and that voice of reason cat have the worst logic since the internet was created. You mini tariqs blaming everything on foreignors, even your own problems that were here before foreignors arrived.

go work on keeping your older wife from running your life, as you have complained about on here.
I bet my “older wife” looks better than every scallywag you’ve ever touched.

I don’t have any problems in my marriage.

Anything I share here is resolved before I go to bed.

I share to help some of you idiots out with dealing with your own women to show my shyt ain’t all the way perfect either.

I run my house and I don’t have to belittle my wife to do it.

Sounds like I touched a nerve.

You nikkas are chauvinists and weird and we’d appreciate it if you attached your country of origin to your pathetic issues instead of saying “black.”
 
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This man worships his wife and encouraged her to start rapping/performing. Im glad tobe said something..that woman who said that is miserable
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
I'm trying to understand how he disrespected his wife (or anyone else) in this video...
The “Deandre” comment could be seen as disrespectful to some
But outside of that
He really ain’t sneak dissing nobody because many black Americans say we have names of our oppressors and wish our names had actual meanings
And if you knew where he grew up(Alief-SWATS)
Then you would have more insight on why he felt that way as a child and his transition into fully embracing his Nigerian roots
But the internet is a machine and vacuum of overreaching and trying to make statements on shyt that’s not there
Until the nikka comes out with something(I’ve personally never seen him) truly offensive to black americans
It’s pretty much bird babble

:Shaq:
 

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I'm sorry he's trash :heh: His music always came off incredibly corny and forced, so many better alt hip-hop artist with a similar sound.

I've always felt the same way. lol But at least he uses women in a positive light in his videos.
 

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I saw this guy on a tv show called Mo, about this middle eastern immigrant with no papers and his everyday struggles. He is Mo's best friend or something like that. I dont watch alot of shows, so I remember vividly.

I hated his character. He just whined about his life and drank. Show was trash. ending was trash. Actor was trash.
 
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The “Deandre” comment could be seen as disrespectful to some
But outside of that
He really ain’t sneak dissing nobody because many black Americans say we have names of our oppressors and wish our names had actual meanings
And if you knew where he grew up(Alief-SWATS)
Then you would have more insight on why he felt that way as a child and his transition into fully embracing his Nigerian roots
But the internet is a machine and vacuum of overreaching and trying to make statements on shyt that’s not there
Until the nikka comes out with something(I’ve personally never seen him) truly offensive to black americans
It’s pretty much bird babble

:Shaq:



Its literally how I grew up. My father gave me and my siblings African names so we would have pride in our African heritage from birth and I will do the same for my children.
 

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I bet my “older wife” looks better than every scallywag you’ve ever touched.

I don’t have any problems in my marriage.

Anything I share here is resolved before I go to bed.

I share to help some of you idiots out with dealing with your own women to show my shyt ain’t all the way perfect either.

I run my house and I don’t have to belittle my wife to do it.

Sounds like I touched a nerve.

You nikkas are chauvinists and weird and we’d appreciate it if you attached your country of origin to your pathetic issues instead of saying “black.”


Ahh, you're the wife in your marriage..
I get it now, you mad because you're not us :umad:
 
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