Beating kids is wrong

Mandarin Duck

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I think the key to disciplining is letting your children understand that there will be consequences for their actions.
Unfortunately some parents(and that ain't just blacks) would rather just hit their kid
 

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The funny thing is my Dad never hit me.
But that fear. :ufdup: That fear that he would was so evident he didn't need to.
THAT'S exactly what I like to hear. How I'm gunna have my daughter feeling :demonic:

I'ma say this, a beating is usually never for discliplinary reasons as much as it is simply a parent just upset at what the child did. It's like putting a choke chain on a dog, except we are humans, we ain't that dense :snoop: How many parents beat their children out of mere frustration from their own life and once the child screws up a bit, all that anger comes out..

My mom used to believe in beating until I out grew her :steviej:and she grew up in Trinidad in a time where the TEACHERS could beat ya if you "screwed" up :camby:
 

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Pops was whooping ass:mjlol:

I kept doing shyt and laughing at other people getting ass whoopings.:lolbron:


College degree, no criminal record still love my fam.:manny:

I think Imma but him a BBQ grill for Father's day. :obama:
 

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If a parent gas to beat their kid, then they lost. If you can't use your words and wisdom to control a child, then you are a pretty shytty parent
 

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:beli: Them African parents beat the shyt of their kids all the damn time and they usually turn out fine.
 

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I think the key to disciplining is letting your children understand that there will be consequences for their actions.
Unfortunately some parents(and that ain't just blacks) would rather just hit their kid

This. And then on the flip side you have parents (a good number of black people) that would rather just let their kid do whatever they want and then turn around and be :mindblown: when their kid acts an ass.

I know people that received corporal punishment and are just fine and I know people that are in jail. Same with people who were never touched. It all comes down to your overall approach and what kind of example you are setting. If your kids watch you cuss and fight all day then should it really be surprising if they are fighting and cursing in school? :ld: The whole purpose of being a parent is to show you kids thy way to go and check them when they veer off that path. Sometimes that requires an ass-whoopin. Far more often than not it doesn't but this idea that physical punishment is never necessary is comically unrealistic.
 
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I feel worse when a parent curses out their kid and never opens up a dialogue about the punishment and consquences. Some of the things I overhear are just not healthy for children to be told to.
 

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lol

Here come all the "I got beat and I turned out okay" fellas...

I bet none of those dudes in prison got hit, right?
They all had lame old time outs, right?

:sas1:

Those people in prison probably grew up in impoverished neighborhoods and were missing a parent but I'll let you cook. :skip:
 
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