benoit benjamin is considered one of the biggest "busts' in nba history
he was selected 3rd overall in the draft..
a 7 footer with hall of fame potential
but ultimately floated around and played for nine different nba teams over 15+ years
frequently overweight, lazy, and ineffective
one time his team was eliminated from the playoffs
everyone was crying while benjamin coolly put on his suit
teammate was like "we were soooo close"

benjamin- "you've got to be more casual about these things.."

then he dipped from the locker room and went out to party by himself
that's the epitome of "detached"

personally i prefer to invest myself in the outcome of certain challenges
it opens up a wide range of life experiences
i learn more from my failures and setbacks
not that i want a brutal string of L's
but only taking W's means you were lightly matched
which is honestly about the same as not keeping score
or only simulating life from a keyboard