That swirl baby girl. That pony tail gon be lush from birth
Bedwench Intervention needed
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Rice'N Beckford
**King of ADOS**
My head hurts tryna ready this old hoe's posts
. No matter what.
You prob look like the escorts the duke lacrosse team was smashin
. No matter what.You prob look like the escorts the duke lacrosse team was smashin
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
It ain't hard open ur mindMy head hurts tryna ready this old hoe's posts
You prob look like the escorts the duke lacrosse team was smashin
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
Get your Eve on.
I'm not ever getting married again #gmb
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Lagos to London was about a bunch of snobby rich people who are used to looking down on people from their home country- of course they'll suck up to white people, they know that they're the reason that they're still rich.
Yeah, I have noticed that quite a few Nigerians suck up to white people in the West, especially in the workplace/educational institution, as they believe that the West is the white man's homeland so in order to succeed over here, you have to 'make nice' with white people. This is a damning reality for many black people living in the west. Unfortunately, some of them are so eager to succeed they'll happily throw other black people/groups under the bus in order to achieve this. What you don't realise is that many of these people secretly hate white people, trust me, I've come across many in my lifetime who'll be overly kind to white people in their faces but then say the most racist things behind their backs. It's the kind of thing that white people do tbf
.Unfortunately, I've always lived in Britain but I holiday in Nigeria every couple of years. I plan to eventually move there permanently and live in between Nigeria and the U.K. somtime in the future though.
calixprynce
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thats cool , at least you get to go back every few years .
I plan on permanently moving to Africa too. Thinking about Ghana or Nigeria. still learning about the different countries and customs there
thats my endplan
Ghana is a beautiful country, so is Nigeria but I would advise you to first make some Ghanaian/Nigerian friends where you live and then visit either country when any of your friends plan to travel home before deciding whether to live there or not.
TMNT4000
Superstar
Bless't
Living the dream
Sure. I think it's quite uncontroversial. I don't believe black women are repulsed or have ever been repulsed by white men. And I think they genuinely would like both to personally experience and see a greater number of black women forming relationships with white men. In fact historically whenever black women were in position to form partnerships with them (even other non-black men) they took it, be it in Brazil, or cabo-verde, or haiti and new orleans with the french plaçage (granted mixed women eventually came to be preferred in this system), etc. This is not surprising; if hypergamy is available to women (well actually for men as well) they will take it.
And this is the crux. The opportunities for the average black woman have not been that plentiful in this regard. That is the supply of white men seeking long-term relationships with black women has historically been dependent on whether other women were available, hence kinda low. For a long while there was this perception that white men simply saw little romantic value in them (of course some of this perception was actually rooted in reality, that is whites in general being quite bigoted towards blacks).
So black women being aware of this tried to salvage some self-agency and said "no muthafukka, don't get it twisted, we don't want you". This is an instance I give credit to them for being somewhat more self reflecting than their male counterparts... black men in the same situation (that is, white and non-black women largely not wanting them as partners) to protect their frail egos invented this notion that all women want them and other dudes just hating the black man's libido.
Things are getting far better for black women in this regard though. The culture and mentality that encouraged virulent open racism against blacks is dying. Though they do not have yet (and likely will never gain) the status of white women, some of them now have more options in regards to partners (educated middle class black women), and they intend to take full advantage of it. This is why there's a very significant push on their part through the creation of groups, literature, dating apps... all encouraging forming relationships with white an non-black men. Actually social media is a big player in this, it democratised these women's ability to market and promote themselves. Before when all media was essentially white media and holywood, black women were largely invisible and when not, hardly displayed as the prize. Now you just go on the internet and you can see a variety of positive representation of this pairing, because black women are providing the content themselves. It's positive reinforcement.
Do black women have a hard set preference for white men... no. However like any other woman they have preference for certain traits and outcomes (social position, financial stability, power and authority, and positive perception) that white and non-black men exhibit at higher rates than the average black man. This has always been the case. What has not always been the case is the existence of an environment that allows certain women to form unions across racial boundaries for their benefit.
In short, I don't think black women really have a distaste towards white men (some pretend but they don't and at this point the need to pretend is vanishing), in fact if there was a mass demand for them they would furnish the supply. When the demand is not there and is actually compounded with negativity, they quite cleverly turn it around and say "you was no prize anyway wet dog!"
I'm disgusted with myself for this one... who the fukk writes whole epics on such trivialities... you asked for it breh
Tell me when you read it... I'm going to delete this post...
I'm disappointed in you @sanityovar8ted and @Phoenix_Knightly23
You full of shyt fam we don't bootlick cacs. Get my people's name out ya mouth
But we do look down on other Africans... I cant argue that.
You full of shyt fam we don't bootlick cacs. Get my people's name out ya mouth
But we do look down on other Africans... I cant argue that.
So you think the reason black women haven't been heavily interested in white men before is because of fear of public condemnation?
No, thanks to social media, white men have been able to steal our swag in real time, while also being able to find out just what black women want to hear, and regurgitating it right back to them as if they're really interested in anything other than getting between their lovely thighs.
The devil always has been and always will be cunning, if nothing else.