BEDWENCH upset her husbands friends CAC wives NEVER want to sit with her when they go out.

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Yeah but why would blk women have problems with it?

Why does this woman deserve to be shunned by other women for having the type of relationship she has?

I don't understand why it bothers anyone honestly but I am ultra curious why blk women would be mad.
Girl, come on. When you attend an event or gathering and you are younger than most of the other women, ppl pay attention. It’s the same when couples get together and one couple has a big age gap.
It makes ppl feel awkward if they aren’t secure in their relationship, looks, finances, etc. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Just how folks are.
 

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I see the coli brehettes know next to nothing about this couple but already assuming "old cac bag", and that he doesn't need financial assistance.

because he's a cac and old :dead:

there's also a lot of gray in relationship terms and possibilities between palatable prostitute and financially assisting a man
 
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He needs to check her. She’s not supposed to involve him in female bullshyt. Why can’t she hang out with other bedwenches? I’ll bet he doesn’t hang out with her Black friends (if she has any) yet he ain’t complaining.

:skip:

Is there a local network of black women dating older white men in each town? Does she have that option?
 

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I see the coli brehettes know next to nothing about this couple but already assuming "old cac bag", and that he doesn't need financial assistance.

because he's a cac and old :dead:

there's also a lot of gray in relationship terms and possibilities between palatable prostitute and financially assisting a man
You can always count on coli women to bring that Lipstick alley feeling to thecoli. Look how deep @Gloxina is in this thread, probably giddy as fukk to have the opportunity to talk about some bedwench :russ:
 

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What I don't understand is why the husband would put his wife in a situation where she isn't acxepted nor welcomed??

Also, why would the wife put herself in a situation where she doesn't feel accepted nor welcomed?

Thing is..

Ppl who have spouses & significant others from different cultural and ethnic backgrounds need to have that talk and understanding off top that being in said relationships does come with challenges, but one thing that should never be tolerated is disrespect and intolerance from friends, family, associates, acquaintances, etc.

Especially with spouses, a spouse comes first! That includes kids, parents and especially over extended family members and the different level of friends.

Maybe one day, the 💡 will illuminate in the couple's head and they will stop hanging around the husband's friend's and wives. Either they find new friends who are more rolersnt and accepting or ride together on their own.
 
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People dont talk about the other side of this.

You kinda get isolated in these relationships at times. Unless that other colored person has diverse array of friends you will feel isolated ALOT.

Unless you’re one of those black conservatives who purposely seek out white environments, and like being the only black person

I’ve been at events, and gravitated towards the only other black person, and gotten the cold shoulder. These weren’t all social events. Sometimes, it’s a business event. I’m always taken aback, because I’m thinking, “We could network, and help each other, but you want to be the special one”.
 
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What I don't understand is why the husband would put his wife in a situation where she isn't acxepted nor welcomed??

Also, why would the wife put herself in a situation where she doesn't feel accepted nor welcomed?

Thing is..

Ppl who have spouses & significant others from different cultural and ethnic backgrounds need to have that talk and understanding off top that being in said relationships does come with challenges, but one thing that should never be tolerated is disrespect and intolerance from friends, family, associates, acquaintances, etc.

Especially with spouses, a spouse comes first! That includes kids, parents and especially over extended family members and the different level of friends.

Maybe one day, the 💡 will illuminate in the couple's head and they will stop hanging around the husband's friend's and wives. Either they find new friends who are more rolersnt and accepting or ride together on their own.
As someone who used to have a bunch of white friends, they don’t care. I’ve invited people places, and they ask if they will be the only white person there, yet think I’ll be perfectly fine being the only black person anywhere.
 

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Girl, come on. When you attend an event or gathering and you are younger than most of the other women, ppl pay attention. It’s the same when couples get together and one couple has a big age gap.
It makes ppl feel awkward if they aren’t secure in their relationship, looks, finances, etc. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Just how folks are.
You mean YOU. I am asking because I don't go around hating women for random nonsensical reasons nor encounter people that openly do that.

I didn't know BW openly ran from younger women. Lol

That's something I can't relate to so that's why I am asking YOU because you obviously can.

I actually had a friend who had a older White boyfriend/sugar daddy. Occasionally I would go out with them and it was never an issue. Even with the older women. We met his ex wife once and she was very nice and polite.

I have social skills and I don't compete for the attention of men. Maybe that's why I can't relate.

I was trying to see if it came down to anything but hating but I can see from your response it doesn't.
 
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I see the coli brehettes know next to nothing about this couple but already assuming "old cac bag", and that he doesn't need financial assistance.

because he's a cac and old :dead:

there's also a lot of gray in relationship terms and possibilities between palatable prostitute and financially assisting a man
:mjlol:

This thread is full of hhhhhaaaaattttteeerrrrssss.



:pachaha:get money bytch
 

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:mjlol:

This thread is full of hhhhhaaaaattttteeerrrrssss.



:pachaha:get money bytch


I made no single comment on the couple, their lives, financial situation nor motivation for being together. For all I know she loves the cac :pachaha:

I did comment on how hilarious it is to see verdicts from coli brehettes with next to no information - and how palatable prostitute <-> financially assisting men aren't the be all end all romantic relationship axis

I'm afraid that a tiktok video of a car purchase (?)/ dealership - addresses nothing of what I said - I'm not trying to get combative either - coli just funny to me:russ:
 

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As someone who used to have a bunch of white friends, they don’t care. I’ve invited people places, and they ask if they will be the only white person there, yet think I’ll be perfectly fine being the only black person anywhere.

Seems like they really wasn't your friends. I have some non Blk friends, but I seldom associate with them outside of work. When I have, it's been cool. They know that I don't tolerate nonsense just like they wouldn't tolerate nonsense.

But, I wouldn't knowingly put myself in a situation where I wasn't welcomed. I don't expect ppl who wouldn't normally deal with Blk folks to speak to me or associate with me.

That's their choice.

But, they can't disrespect me. If I ever find myself in a situation where the tension was unfavorable, then I would remove myself from that situation.

I prefer to be in a safe space. Perhaps you feel the same??
 

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I made no single comment on the couple, their lives, financial situation nor motivation for being together. For all I know she loves the cac :pachaha:

I did comment on how hilarious it is to see verdicts from coli brehettes with next to no information - and how palatable prostitute <-> financially assisting men aren't the be all end all romantic relationship axis

I'm afraid that a tiktok video of a car purchase (?)/ dealership - addresses nothing of what I said - I'm not trying to get combative either - coli just funny to me:russ:

You said "I see the coli brehettes know next to nothing about this couple but already assuming "old cac bag", and that he doesn't need financial assistance."

That was directly related to my posts.

I actually saw this post way before it was posted looked through her TikTok and see that she's going with the Soft Life angle.

Okay I take it at face value with all the other lies ya'll tell about how great relationships are while constantly complaining about them. Lol

So no friend, I wasn't going off of "no information." Your hate had you being presumptuous.

It obvious ya'll are hating. She didn't even say anythimg negative about BM or BP and ya'll 7 pages deep foaming at the mouth.

:mjlol:

A young attractive dark skin BW looking like she ain't slaving away or crying about how she isn't the standard has ya'll see red like a motherfukker.

Ya'll wasn't this mad in the thread about the man getting his 5 year old killed.

Ya'll some truly fukked up people.
 

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Is there a local network of black women dating older white men in each town? Does she have that option?
There’s tons of bedwench social media plaforms they could link.

I’d assume the issue is the Men they’re dealing ain’t interested in being seen as a Trophy son husband boy toy.

That’s the thing the actual chicks who happened to fall in love date and marry quietly

like Kristen Welker did the loud look at me types trying to flex on Black people don’t and can’t have real friends.
By the way I seen the tik tok they were at a bar with his friends so he’s not hiding her.

She’s a complainy pants wierdo and may be bushed soon.
 
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