Before I get into it I'd like to say I'm truly grateful

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

That I too will find wifeable women in or from these areas. And yes, I know that they're not all wifeable because circa 07-08 I was in Atlanta running through quite a bit of habesha women who had good little East African dudes they were dating. They were also Americanized so I'll avoid those types.


A video his cousin took of her putting her clothes on right after he and his boy flipped her with her telling him to stop filming.

Video proof

I feel for you, brotha.

 

[Morethan1]

Welp, apparently she's blocked my car in back on the yard and is waiting for me to get back from the port. She's not just gonna let me go about my life peacefully.

Been there before I had to get the police involved

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

The nerve of this bytch texting me trying to come over to “watch Dune and have sex”.
I didn't realize it but I have to ghost her for a few days.

You must. You need some space to process what you learned and get your composure back. Right now you are admittedly in your feels a little bit. Take a few days, turn your heart ice cold and then re-engage.

 

[Still Benefited]

Yeah, she said she went through a hoe phase and shes also bisexual.

Just so I'm clear I never wifed ole girl I just kicked it with her a few times a week to the point where I know people think we're a couple and up until today I didn't care but now I do.

How the hell you acting suprised then,if she was honest enough to tell you that.



The real question here is are you really upset because your homie found out the truth too? Men are okay dealing with ho's until the family or friends find out. Then suddenly we wanna cut ties so the homies dont think your simping for a ho. Because if it does inevidiably blow up in your face. They will all clown you into oblivion for trying to turn a ho into a housewife.


You are upset at your homie for ruining the lie you were ready to live. Is something you have to consider. Homies take "joy" in the exposure because they may think you are on the same time they are. When you really are on that time,the exposure is comical. Sounds like maybe you were, but have matured. Now you have to look at if the type of friends you have is conduscive to a man looking for a wife.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

In my experience, this is the reaction of most people who get caught in this situation which is why I’m not saying shyt to a homie if I find out his girl is dipping off.

Doesn’t matter how altruistic your motives can be, the homie’s bruised ego and insecurities will bubble up to the surface, and will have him feeling some type of way about you, questioning whether or not you’re jealous, you being petty, you trying to get the p*ssy....

Fukk all that, find out on your own.

Just think, if you didn’t have the Coli to talk you through this, your feelings toward your homie would have sat and festered, and your resentment would have grown, and then eventually fall out.

I completely understand why you feel this way. I pick and choose when to get involved. Like for instance my brother was tryna talk to this chic and word got back around to me that she was pregnant and was keeping it on the low. I circled around to my brother and let him know cause I knew it wasn't his. Just to let him know that hey, she ain't being honest with you. Once I tell you, it's on you how you want to proceed. I just want to make sure you got all the variables before you try to solve the equation.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I never loved her but I do still like her, that was the homie. I'm just not gonna be rolling with a slut.

I'm about to leave out now, I really hope I dont have to restrain this bytch.

Thought you were gonna keep smashing but keep it lowkey? You finding it hard to do that cause you got some feelings wrapped up in her.

 

[Diondon]

edit

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

You hurt hurt

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

What'd she do?

The coli told me a woman's past don't matter. Give her a chance breh. If it dont work, it dont work. @86\*/98

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You know... if some nikkas on here weren't so lame I'd drop this bytch IG right up here but alas it's the coli.com and nikkas would have links to this thread in her dms before the hour is up and then this would turn into some shyt with real life consequences because I know that bytch will get irrational to say the least.

So no.

Y'all dont know how to edit pictures? All you gotta do is scratch out her username and face if you that serious

 

[Jasonmask]

I never loved her but I do still like her, that was the homie. I'm just not gonna be rolling with a slut.

I'm about to leave out now, I really hope I dont have to restrain this bytch.

Have you not been with a good amount of women yourself? I get it like you don’t want to be that guy but y’all vibing and everything was good until you knew something that happened in the past. I’m just saying just because the next girl may not be as sexually liberal, doesn’t mean you’ll enjoy her company. Now if you haven’t been with a lot of girls then that’s understandable but if you have idk man I think you should give it a go.

Also you helping out with her car and shyt that’s a move to make out of love you don’t have to cap I don’t know you personally.

 

[Abstract83]

To be honest breh I think you are in love with her. You have deep feelings for her. From getting her car detailed to her putting food in your fridge. Going grocery shopping together breh that's wifey. I do think its really messed up how you found out. But you have to make a choice. You should let her know that you know and bush her. It should be that simple if you dont love her.

What's the point of wanting side chicks when you dont wanna be loyal to the main. But if she moves like you its a problem. You have to decide if you want a monogamous relationship or not. If not just be single and date. I mean no disrespect by saying all this. Just my observation.

I use to move like that but I'll be honest and say I want a wife. All this hiding, lying, and ego boosting gets tired after awhile.