Before I get into it I'd like to say I'm truly grateful

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In my experience, this is the reaction of most people who get caught in this situation which is why I’m not saying shyt to a homie if I find out his girl is dipping off.

Doesn’t matter how altruistic your motives can be, the homie’s bruised ego and insecurities will bubble up to the surface, and will have him feeling some type of way about you, questioning whether or not you’re jealous, you being petty, you trying to get the p*ssy....

Fukk all that, find out on your own.

Just think, if you didn’t have the Coli to talk you through this, your feelings toward your homie would have sat and festered, and your resentment would have grown, and then eventually fall out.

You don't have friendships that you'll risk losing to do the right thing? I'm gonna speak the truth to loved ones no matter how they take it because I want them to be able to make the best moves and I know they need the truth to do that.

“fukk all that, find out on your own.” is pretty cold to me but to each his own.

And I definitely use the coli as a journal most times I start a thread but I have other outlets.:russ: I am the most honest on here though because I'm anonymous so I'm not embarrassed about shyt.:ehh:
 

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I probably could've handled this a better way but I just ignored her when she came knocking on my door earlier. I forgot we usually hit Whole Foods up early on Saturday together. She's blowing my phone up but I don't even want to give her an explanation for me switching up. I think explanations for a cut-off are for respectable women not the slut that gets flipped and passed like pancakes at IHOP.

This bytch really had me out and about with her on the regular while getting tossed by groups of nikkas.:scust:

Initially, I was in shock and misguided anger at the homie. In retrospect, was he an a$$hole about it? yes. But can I say he was a bad friend? no. I actually brought that on myself because I act like I don't care if the women I deal with get hit by a bus or not. With that said, I don't care if this bytch gets hit by a bus right now. She had me out here looking like a straight sucker. Who knows how many nikkas saw me with this slut and snickered.:why:

Kissing on this slut.:scust:
Eating this slut p*ssy.:scust:

Rawdogging this slut.:scust:

Occasionally not pulling out of this slut.:damn:

I'm about to go drop $300+ on a full panel std test.:snoop:


I can't even curse this bytch out because I said I wouldn't say shyt about seeing what I saw or heard about... Why are some of these bytches so scandalous?... I know why but I'm just venting.

Man, I just want a respectable wife that understands that I'm gonna keep a couple side hoes well into my 60’s. Is that too much to ask for?:aicmon:
1 thing i learned being with a hoe is that they want 1 main guy they can maintain a "real" relationship with to make themselves feel better about themselves. Most these hoes have mental issues, some hide it better than others.

I don't agree with your last statement, you can't expect your wife to be faithful while she's ok with you having a couple side hoes. You should be proud to be faithful, it's a good look for you and your future wife.
 
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Send me her pics and number
so i can explain how wrong she
was for not being real with you.
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My other homie told me I'm just looking for another place to put my ill feelings because I can't tell her that I know what I know about her, maybe he's right and I'm just salty at the situation.
Nah, you were right. Similar situation with my brother "having my back" on something, and I've known him all my life so I'm not wrong.

He probably didn't have bad intentions, but he was lowkey happy like a cac playing hero or some shyt
 

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Destroy them both. :demonic:






























:troll:nah, but you gotta bush her and keep an eye on the homie. Count it as a lowercase w that will ultimately become a capital W.
 

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1 thing i learned being with a hoe is that they want 1 main guy they can maintain a "real" relationship with to make themselves feel better about themselves. Most these hoes have mental issues, some hide it better than others.

I don't agree with your last statement, you can't expect your wife to be faithful while she's ok with you having a couple side hoes. You should be proud to be faithful, it's a good look for you and your future wife.

I'm not monogamous. Tripping on a man having multiple women is just a western thing. I'm going to have my wife and my concubines as well. And I'm not gonna lie about it. That's that.:manny:
Nah, you were right. Similar situation with my brother "having my back" on something, and I've known him all my life so I'm not wrong.

He probably didn't have bad intentions, but he was lowkey happy like a cac playing hero or some shyt

Naw, I was tripping. I was in my little feelings. He got and is still getting his laughs off but that's the homie.
 

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She DID tell you she was a hoe though

:yeshrug:

Technically she told me she had a hoe phase. But turns out she's just a hoe. I know she's probably this way because she got touched as a child but she's gotta fix herself if she wants to keep a man because being a slut isn't gonna work at least not with a nikka like me. Maybe she can find a swinger.:yeshrug:
 

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:hubie: Everyone's different, but personally that wouldn't be a laughing matter. You know him tho, so you know if he's laughing at you or the situation...

Yeah, we're evil sometimes but it's all love.:manny:

As many said if he wasn't looking out he would've let me continue without saying shyt.
 
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