Before the rise of podcasts and social media, were most squares completely unaware?

[Donny]

I had to take some L’s in my early dating life before a couple of my homeboys/ homegirl’s let me know what it is and I grew up around a lot of women so I already kind’ve knew how it goes

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Hell and to your point in the modern era things have even changed drastically since Covid (2020) to now. Even the early days of dating apps (2013) to now. Instagram (which started as a simple photo sharing app in 2012/2013) to 2015/2016 when they introduced stories and longer video clips then reels.

I remember dating pre social media and women were different. Different mindset. I agree anybody claiming things are the same as back then are being dense or really wasn’t outside between the two eras.

Men and women have always been narcissistic but social media introduced a level of narcissism, selfishness, instant access, shortened attention spans that humans aren’t accustomed to dealing with, especially in dating.

Bingo. /Thread.

 

[lib123]

Bro, you’re in here admitting you’re just trying to run through women, don’t want to do any work, and get sex from as many women as possible. You’re not better than the next guy.

Dating is a competition. Attractive women aren’t giving it up easily to average men with average salaries. So if you don’t look good enough, or have enough money, you’re out of luck. You’re telling on yourself. You posted a meme that certain other men don’t have to spend to get sex. You just want sex too. You’re not waiting to shower a woman in love and affection. You just want to smash too. No woman has to stick to a certain set of rules to fukk. If she lets him fukk easily, and not you, that’s her right. Maybe she knows there are certain men for fukking, and certain men for husband material. You don’t fit the fukking role, so she is “giving you a chance”. You didn’t impress her. There are 10 other average men who offer the same thing you offer, but more. Is she the superficial one when you too want an attractive partner? I keep the emphasis on attractive, because you can probably pull a Gabby Sidibe, or young Sherri Shepard, but you don’t want them. Yet you want Megan Good, and prime Lisa Raye to want Anthony Anderson in Big Momma’s House, because he’s a nice guy. It works both ways, but that woman who cares about aesthetics wants her equal. You don’t want your equal. So how is she the problem?

Most men, including myself have had a woman, or women we kept around, because they were cool, and down to fukk. That’s literally all they were good for. Some of those women would have treated me well, but I just wasn’t feeling it. I’ve never had a scarcity mentality when it comes to women, so I didn’t settle down with them. That doesn’t mean anything was wrong with them, I just didn’t think they were my wife. That’s how it is. Someone can have good qualities, but she’s not it. The difference is women try to turn those men who have made it clear they don’t want commitment, into their husbands. They hold on, because it’s rare they encounter men they are attracted to. No, it’s not always a thug.

I’m not admitting anything lol. I’m just curious as to how aware square dudes were before the rise of social media and podcasts. It’s not that deep and I can pull attractive women.

 

[I love Latina women]

Social media was a mistake because every nikka and cracker thinks they’re an expert

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

 

[Gloxina]

Start @5:50

And if you must skip ahead, a KEY moment is at @10:50 and onward, especially @11:25




2 brothas with with very different ideologies.

 

[Stuntone]

A lot of women have horrible pu$$y management skills nowadays. They were never taught. They're too addicted to Thrills for too long. Wish women go for stability first.

Wise women know not to fall hard for the fun dude. I've been that fun dude and they wise girls cut me off after a while, dumb girls still letting me smash in hopes of the future together.

Wise women know when they can't lock a man down, it's time to move along. And they know to lock the hardworking, consistent man down before 30. A lot of these women in they 30s and 40s still letting thugs smash.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

myspace and various other sites existed way before social media

sh-t SOHH you had the news like you do here

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

If you wasn't this guy, you knew about this guy existing

Nobody is surprised to hear this stuff. Not even the guy faking his shock in the clip.

People are just surprised to hear women be so open. But women been women since the beginning of women. They aren't anything special. Animals just like the rest of us. They love sex too. They have pure attractions too. They act on it too.

They used to just keep it quiet tho

 

[Diondon]

You learned this shyt from your OG, your uncles, rap music or plain ole trial & error

 

[UpAndComing]

The easy way is to just blame women, but majority of the blame falls on the SIMPS. They don't set the standard or rules on male/female engagement

Every so often I come across an attractive women who is instantly disrespectful and assumes her attractiveness allows her to talk crazy to a man. When I instantly check her on the spot for it and give that tone, the absolute shock she gets from it shows that she was so comfortable with SIMPs just letting her walk all over them. That's when I knew the game is upside down. 9/10 I'm usually the first guy in that attractive woman's life to ever talk to her like that, a dude that demand respect or number is getting deleted. Sad but true

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

The easy way is to just blame women, but majority of the blame falls on the SIMPS. They don't set the standard or rules on male/female engagement

Every so often I come across an attractive women who is instantly disrespectful and assumes her attractiveness allows her to talk crazy to a man. When I instantly check her on the spot for it and give that tone, the absolute shock she gets from it shows that she was so comfortable with SIMPs just letting her walk all over them. That's when I knew the game is upside down. 9/10 I'm usually the first guy in that attractive woman's life to ever talk to her like that, a dude that demand respect or number is getting deleted. Sad but true

the insane inequality of today and ease of access created by social media makes it difficult to set a standard. When hoes got access to dudes like C Breezy how can WE American men set a standard? That nikka don't see me as a peer or a brother let's be real. Working class men can't put their foot down if working class women don't give a damn about their approval or respect.

 

[Mr. Negative]

We were in denial.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

The easy way is to just blame women, but majority of the blame falls on the SIMPS. They don't set the standard or rules on male/female engagement

Every so often I come across an attractive women who is instantly disrespectful and assumes her attractiveness allows her to talk crazy to a man. When I instantly check her on the spot for it and give that tone, the absolute shock she gets from it shows that she was so comfortable with SIMPs just letting her walk all over them. That's when I knew the game is upside down. 9/10 I'm usually the first guy in that attractive woman's life to ever talk to her like that, a dude that demand respect or number is getting deleted. Sad but true

The problem is really that she sees YOU and thinks she can talk to YOU like that

Do you they talk like that to the guy who's fukking them and not doing shyt else for them? He don't even care to get washed up or have a dollar in his pocket when he slides over there to hit raw. You think she's also talking to him/treating him like some SIMP?

Nah. She's doing everything to try and make that guy do all the shyt that other dudes are doing. Cause no matter what they do, she still want that pipe. And if they had it, she wouldn't need him. And he knows it, so he acts a goddamn fool and she lets him....


Ask me how I know

 

[SNYC]

Nah..

Cheating & simping always existed. Lames always knew

The 'woman dating bad boys' trope was always around.

'Cheaper to keep her' was a song from a popular term

'Diamonds are a girl's best friend' showed the materialism

Just watching the way people moved in relationships showed you what was going on. Also actually interacting with the opposite sex.


You just had hardheaded people that took their Ls in private, in other words they were able to hide better.

Plus people had less reach. The baddest chick on your block is now accessible to anyone with a social media profile..and vice versa, you see some random chick on tv/social media, etc.. & now have the means to contact her... causing competition (and simping) + inflated egos