Before the rise of podcasts and social media, were most squares completely unaware?

[UpAndComing]

The problem is really that she sees YOU and thinks she can talk to YOU like that

Do you they talk like that to the guy who's fukking them and not doing shyt else for them? He don't even care to get washed up or have a dollar in his pocket when he slides over there to hit raw. You think she's also talking to him/treating him like some SIMP?

Nah. She's doing everything to try and make that guy do all the shyt that other dudes are doing. Cause no matter what they do, she still want that pipe. And if they had it, she wouldn't need him. And he knows it, so he acts a goddamn fool and she lets him....


Ask me how I know

What the hell are you babbling about

Sounded like you just got finished watching a Red Pill video marathon

 

[UpAndComing]

the insane inequality of today and ease of access created by social media makes it difficult to set a standard. When hoes got access to dudes like C Breezy how can WE American men set a standard? That nikka don't see me as a peer or a brother let's be real. Working class men can't put their foot down if working class women don't give a damn about their approval or respect.

I get your point, but nah. There have been groupies who had one night stands with Men since the Rock and Roll and Funk/Disco days in the 60s and 70s. She will still get that reality check because that 1 or 2 moments with a famous guy would be too few and far between for her to see that and think that is her level. 99% of all her male encounters will still be with a non-famous guy. The only way she gets reinforced in her not being based in reality are by SIMPs putting her on a pedestal

 

[CoCKy GeNiuS]

Yes podcasts, social media, and todays internet in general has closeness the gap between squares and players. But one thing I realize is some people just have that square simp thing in their DNA. Which means no matter how much game you pour on them, podcasts they watch or experience they have they're still going to be the simp or sucker.

 

[jilla82]

OP talking like he's some natural born playa but can pull up all these dating videos at the drop of a hat

 

[jilla82]

I get your point, but nah. There have been groupies who had one night stands with Men since the Rock and Roll and Funk/Disco days in the 60s and 70s. She will still get that reality check because that 1 or 2 moments with a famous guy would be too few and far between for her to see that and think that is her level. 99% of all her male encounters will still be with a non-famous guy. The only way she gets reinforced in her not being based in reality are by SIMPs putting her on a pedestal

there is no "reality check"
that is male cope and hopium.

The rules of society are much different from when traditional marriage was the norm...
we are never going back to that.

Society is more competitive in every way...and it will only increase.

Women dont need to settle for an average dumb man like they used to.
They dont have to put up with his shyt either.

The average simple man cant find a simple job that can pay for a whole family because the marketplace is more competitive.

Paretos principle will hold true in dating.

Life is better for men at the top and harder for men at the bottom.

40 years ago would I easily be able to find women that would be down to bring a 2nd woman in the bedroom every now and then?
Probably not...

but today they are up for it if they know youre hard to replace

 

[UpAndComing]

there is no "reality check"
that is male cope and hopium.

The rules of society are much different from when traditional marriage was the norm...
we are never going back to that.

Society is more competitive in every way...and it will only increase.

Women dont need to settle for an average dumb man like they used to.
They dont have to put up with his shyt either.

The average simple man cant find a simple job that can pay for a whole family because the marketplace is more competitive.

Paretos principle will hold true in dating.

If the competition is so much more than yesteryear and women don't have to settle for an average dumb man.... then why do they still get impregnated by irresponsible men who don't want to commit to them?

 

[Seoul Gleou]

The audacity to have a flabby belly and wear a crop top

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

What the hell are you babbling about

Sounded like you just got finished watching a Red Pill video marathon

Made perfect sense.... You told a story of a woman talking crazy to you like a simp.. You put her in her place, letting her know not to talk to you like that

You then blamed it on the SIMPS for allowing her to do that and not calling her on it...


But the real issue that a woman that fine would NEVER talk to a man she actually liked and respected that way in the first place. Hence the video in the OP, where the women are saying no matter what other nikkas is doing, the one who lays it down, don't have to do that shyt.. If you was really that guy or had that aura, she would have never spoke to you like in the first place. SIMPS had nothing to do with it

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Yes podcasts, social media, and todays internet in general has closeness the gap between squares and players. But one thing I realize is some people just have that square simp thing in their DNA. Which means no matter how much game you pour on them, podcasts they watch or experience they have they're still going to be the simp or sucker.

And this was my point.. Dudes doing all this podcast watching and dikk watching and female studying... All to come to same conclusions that man has come to since the beginning of time.....

If a woman wants you, all that other shyt goes out the fukking window. Denzel gonna say the same thing I say and he's gonna pull 10000% more women. You can look better than Sam Cassell but his money and skill is gonna get him more bytches. You can be 300 pounds with a mouthpiece and you're gonna get more than a guy 300 lbs without one. If you make her squirt 130 times, you gonna getaway with more shyt than the guy who gets asked "is it in yet?"


shyt is 1 plus 1 equals 2, but men today think they are just going to get a good job and not beat women and that entitles them to Halle Berry

 

[UpAndComing]

Made perfect sense.... You told a story of a woman talking crazy to you like a simp.. You put her in her place, letting her know not to talk to you like that

You then blamed it on the SIMPS for allowing her to do that and not calling her on it...


But the real issue that a woman that fine would NEVER talk to a man she actually liked and respected that way in the first place. Hence the video in the OP, where the women are saying no matter what other nikkas is doing, the one who lays it down, don't have to do that shyt.. If you was really that guy or had that aura, she would have never spoke to you like in the first place. SIMPS had nothing to do with it

Like I said, you are in a Red Pill bubble and don't realize it

To the bolded. I'm not sure you have much experience with Women. Yes, a woman can be cordial with you when you first meet. But they don't give out respect until they give tests to see if you should be the man who they should respect. Every woman attractive or not will test a Man that she thinks she wants to get serious with, wants to test to see if you have the balls to check her. And if you ever talked to women, they will do it multiple times, most of the time in a subtle way to see what type of man you are

In your world, because a woman finds you attractive they will instantly walk up to you like

 

[Shadow King]

Yes, or at best, you were "aware" but because of the lack of connectivity you felt you were alone in your issues that made you the blackest or black sheep.

Men now know that they aren't bugging because various regions and backgrounds of men have the same stories.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

I get your point, but nah. There have been groupies who had one night stands with Men since the Rock and Roll and Funk/Disco days in the 60s and 70s. She will still get that reality check because that 1 or 2 moments with a famous guy would be too few and far between for her to see that and think that is her level. 99% of all her male encounters will still be with a non-famous guy. The only way she gets reinforced in her not being based in reality are by SIMPs putting her on a pedestal

it's not even about famous brehs tho. think about women that fukk with street dudes all through their 20's. why would street dudes help regular brehs set a standard when they are eating and impregnating these women already? they like things just the way they are.

so how do you build solidarity and a code for male/female relations around that? A lot of men are hyper individualistic so if they life is good and they are "eating", that's all that matters

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Any nikka saying otherwise is cappin cappin
Every old nikka alive was out here on some trial and error shyt
Even if you had ogs, pops, moms, whomever
You still were hard headed and filled with cum
Even the best advice in the world gets tossed aside when you are young
The only time nikkas knew a girl was a bop was on how many nikkas passed her around in the hood
And even still, it was nikkas falling in love because
The p*ssy was just that good
I can change her
TI didn’t rap She A Freak Though for no reason
Now with the advent of social media, especially Tik Tok
There is no way on gods green earth should you be getting played out here

 

[Shadow King]

I wasn’t around back then….but weren’t dating issues still prevalent back then? Remember Patrice O’Neal was around in the early/mid 2000s, Tom leykis, even the movie coming to America touched on how crazy a lot of ppl were.

I think most men were naive. I can’t really compare cuz I wasn’t around but if you go on any corner you’ll hear even OGs complaining about their ol lady.

Hell men used to get mail ordered brides and hoes from Russia

Patrice O'Neal wasn't mainstream nor did the world have the ability to make things viral or instantaneous back then. You had to seek that type of talk out and if you didn't like it you'd never hear it again by your own choice.

Old men complain about their women because they married them 3-5 decades ago along the guide rails of antiquated standards and the information being less available.

 

[UpAndComing]

it's not even about famous brehs tho. think about women that fukk with street dudes all through their 20's. why would street dudes help regular brehs set a standard when they are eating and impregnating these women already? they like things just the way they are.

so how do you build solidarity and a code for male/female relations around that? A lot of men are hyper individualistic so if they life is good and they are "eating", that's all that matters

Shame and decorum use set a standard before in society. I'm still old enough when Brandy had to lie to the media that she was married to the dude she had a baby out of wedlock with. Now you have Cardi B cheating on her husband with another man and getting impregnated by him, and no one in society is batting an eye