They don’t take advice when trying to help bytch use to say “stop attacking me” when I called out why she fukked up and tried to suggest what she could do to fix the issue..
Because again their mostly overgrown children, they want to complain and be comforted in their complaint, not here actual solutions/strategies to improve the situation, because then they'd have to put work in change, and develop themselves and that's something they only think me should have to do.
I'm early 20s and I'm already done actively pursuing. Wiser, elders have convinced me to keep my heart/mind open if something good comes along and I will until 26/27, but after that I'm completely done, and right now I'm 95% done pursuing, barring a woman that checks all boxes and shows interest or openness to my approach.