PabloEscobar
Banned
cant wait to teach my son the game and how to fukk bytches.
Being a father must be awesome
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I ultimately want to be a father also, but the odds are stacked against me for a few reasons:
My three best options are:
- I don't plan on locking myself into a marriage, but I want a biological child. Most women aren't going for that shyt, and I understand, but still
- I don't really want to have a random "baby mama" that I don't have feelings for and doesn't live with me because I don't want the drama with having other nikkas she's dating around my kid. I want to be actively involved in the day to day fathering shyt
- I would adopt, but a single man might catch headaches during the whole process. Plus I would want my own seed (selfish sounding but
) - No test tube babies
My three best options are:
- getting into a relationship with a woman that has the same philosophy on marriage that I have (not doing it) and not taking it as a personal indictment. She'd have to be a true Get Married, brehette card carrying member
- Starting a life with a single mother with a very young child, but there's that not my seed thing (which I would have to get over). Plus, her baby's father would have to be dead or in for 20+ years so I wouldn't have to deal with that , "nikka, that's MY child" drama BS. Young war veteran widows are the best option after their intial depression phase tho
- Get a puppy
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I ultimately want to be a father also, but the odds are stacked against me for a few reasons:
- I don't plan on locking myself into a marriage, but I want a biological child. Most women aren't going for that shyt, and I understand, but still
- I don't really want to have a random "baby mama" that I don't have feelings for and doesn't live with me because I don't want the drama with having other nikkas she's dating around my kid. I want to be actively involved in the day to day fathering shyt
My two best options are:
- I would adopt, but a single man might catch headaches during the whole process. Plus I would want my own seed (selfish sounding but
- No test tube babies
- getting into a relationship with a woman that has the same philosophy on marriage that I have (not doing it) and not taking it as a personal indictment. She'd have to be a true Get Married, brehette card carrying member
- Starting a life with a single mother with a very young child, but there's that not my seed thing (which I would have to get over). Plus, her baby's father would have to be dead or in for 20+ years so I wouldn't have to deal with that , "nikka, that's MY child" drama BS. Young war veteran widows are the best option after their intial depression phase tho
- Get a puppy
This is literally what I want
Everytime I try to explain that to someone they're like,
"You can't have your cake and eat it too".What's really the point of having a life if you can't tailor it specifically to your wants and needs
? I don't rally care how it sounds, it's just honest
Everytime I try to explain that to someone they're like,
What's really the point of having a life if you can't tailor it specifically to your wants and needs
I've realized since it isn't the norm some people see it as wrong.
Diet Fatherhood is great without real responsbilities, brehs
newworldafro
DeeperThanRapBiggerThanHH
out here eating that low fat, low calorie diet of fatherhood 
.............................................. 
...................................................... still 
My pautna from Jersey who've I've known since we were 5 or 6 years old just found out he had a 5 year old ..... he ain't believe it, hadn't even talked to the chick in years.....but them
.... crazy part is he just told me not even a year ago that if he ever had a kid, he would definitely want to make sure he was in his child's life unlike his biological dad, who was on that Jenny Craig Fatherhood
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Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
Same fukking boatI ultimately want to be a father also, but the odds are stacked against me for a few reasons:
- I don't plan on locking myself into a marriage, but I want a biological child. Most women aren't going for that shyt, and I understand, but still
- I don't really want to have a random "baby mama" that I don't have feelings for and doesn't live with me because I don't want the drama with having other nikkas she's dating around my kid. I want to be actively involved in the day to day fathering shyt
My two best options are:
- I would adopt, but a single man might catch headaches during the whole process. Plus I would want my own seed (selfish sounding but
- No test tube babies
- getting into a relationship with a woman that has the same philosophy on marriage that I have (not doing it) and not taking it as a personal indictment. She'd have to be a true Get Married, brehette card carrying member
- Starting a life with a single mother with a very young child, but there's that not my seed thing (which I would have to get over). Plus, her baby's father would have to be dead or in for 20+ years so I wouldn't have to deal with that , "nikka, that's MY child" drama BS. Young war veteran widows are the best option after their intial depression phase tho
- Get a puppy
JayYoung713
All Star
Being a father is dope though so 
to all my fellow Coli fathers.
to all my fellow Coli fathers.
I'm glad you don't either. It's ok not to like children.
MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
You have your moments like that.It's different when it's your seed.I can say that because I was a uncle before I became a father.It was all fun & laughs.
Now I have them moments of high anxiety worrying about my son's survival.I'm super protective, but I know that day is coming where I know I'm going to have to let him be his own man
It's some bitter sweet shyt that only a parent can explain.Have your heart beating irregular and shyt.
Sometimes I miss them days when I was just a uncle, but my son is here now, and I'm going to be a good soldier and handle my duties.
It's awesome, but at the same time, it hurts, breh
Now I have them moments of high anxiety worrying about my son's survival.I'm super protective, but I know that day is coming where I know I'm going to have to let him be his own man
It's some bitter sweet shyt that only a parent can explain.Have your heart beating irregular and shyt.
Sometimes I miss them days when I was just a uncle, but my son is here now, and I'm going to be a good soldier and handle my duties.
It's awesome, but at the same time, it hurts, breh
General Salty
Rookie
Being a father is beyond dope. Watching my daughter grow into a beautiful young lady, watching how she takes after her mom is . Got my 2 boys that are mini-mes has me like 
. Teaching them about life, getting them ready to be men. Extremely humbling and rewarding.
. Got my 2 boys that are mini-mes has me like . Teaching them about life, getting them ready to be men. Extremely humbling and rewarding.
Nah @ThugLife for the first time in a long time I can't hate. I can't wait to be a dad and teach my seeds how to walk, talk and help them with math homework. Can't wait to go watch my sonS and daughterS play sports, im coming to every game. I'm taking them camping, taking them fishing, teaching them how to fight....everything
