the cac mamba
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listen to nas-daughters 
being a single father is the hardest **** ive been thru
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we need more MEN like you in society
to answer your question... im sure you have some female relatives that can rub off on her
DallasTxRep
Superstar
Just keep doing what u doing
I'm practically a single father myself, I have my son everyday except 2 weekends out of the month. Wouldn't want it no other way
I'm practically a single father myself, I have my son everyday except 2 weekends out of the month. Wouldn't want it no other way
HookersandIceCream
#TeamOrange
Single Fathers - we off that
keep positive women influences around her.
How old is she? What happened with her mother is she going to be permanently out of her life?
bytch rather argue n talk shyt in front of my daughter so i took both us out the enviornment. She can come back TO HER LIFE when she gets her shyt together but not until then.
Im having to teach her to sit with her legs closed, how to not lie for convineince, how to not be thirsty for attention and act out in class, and how to not be a crybaby for starters. And im not tryin to have women runnin thru like track meets in front of her but a nikka got needs
bytch rather argue n talk shyt in front of my daughter so i took both us out the enviornment. She can come back TO HER LIFE when she gets her shyt together but not until then.
Im having to teach her to sit with her legs closed, how to not lie for convineince, how to not be thirsty for attention and act out in class, and how to not be a crybaby for starters. And im not tryin to have women runnin thru like track meets in front of her but a nikka got needs
okay so first how old is she?
and your daughter allowed to visit her mother until she gets her shiit together?
and the things you listed you can do ...just have patience with your princess..
if you need arse bring them over only when your daughter is sleep...I believe having people you are dating around your children is a very bad idea unless they are going to be permanent in your life and you feel they are a good role model...because children pick up on traits quickly and always try to mimic what they see and hear...
Uncle Trill
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Born2BKing
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I'm sure the dude @ThumpDaddy has some advice for you too breh.
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the artist known az
Hail the victors
clap for this manJust try to give her love and always show interest in whatever she's doing
One day you'll find a classy lady that can fill the void of her mother
let me help you out
granted im not a single father right now but i went thru that before with 2 kids
1 boy and 1 girl
whats most important is always being there for her no matter what. somethings about females u might not understand u should ask a close friend or family member that is a female to help guide u on the right path.
also any experience u have had with woman that u picked up THAT IS A GOOD QUALITY OR GOOD THING TO TEACH HER use it remember i said GOOD.
for me it was potty training a female was different for me to get use to also to doing her hair and even to this damn day I STILL CANT GET RIGHT
just always try your best do some research ask around from friends and family if your not sure.
Always cherish her and the time u 2 have together and never let her go be by her side.
times will get rough and dont go just putting anybody into her life MOST IMPORTANTLY when u decide to date again. I would recommend waiting on introducing her to another female. u dont want to confuse her
Also you will likely get hit on a lot cuz from what i see females that see a single father tend to think he must be the GREATEST FATHER IN THE WORLD and i need that around me or in my life (NOT ALL FEMALES THIS APPLIES JUST SOME THAT I HAVE ENCOUNTERED AND SEEN)
Most importantly LOVE HER and never talk bad bout her mother in front of her at all NO MATTER HOW MAD SHE MAKES U OR DIRTY SHE DID U ITS A NO GO.
be the bigger person and avoid that and just say it didnt work out and leave it at that
U can say what u truly feel bout her to other people just not around your little girl
any other questions feel free to ask. ive been down that road before
GetInTheTruck
Member
You're there, that's more than a lot of dudes these days can say
ThumpDaddy
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It feels good to be mentioned in a thread for something positive. Freddy, I feel for you man because I was in the exact same boat as you. I kicked my baby mamma out the apartment before our daughter was 2 years old. But even when my baby mamma was there our daughter was with me most of the time. Everything that Twan83 said is on the money. He basically said what I was gonna say. The females are gonna be at you hard breh, but at the same time you got to keep them away from your daughter.
Lead by example, don't even let your daughter see you bringing in different females because you don't want her to think this is how it's supposed to be. This is the most impressionable time in her life. Before I got married, my daughter only met 2 women that I was dating and the 2nd one ended up being my wife. Only when you think you're going to get serious with a chick is when you start bringing her around your daughter. Look at it this way, let whomever you decide to be with prove that they are worthy to meet your daughter.
Another thing is to make sure you always keep that line of communication open. Never, ever let her think that she can't tell you anything. You got to have that relationship with your daughter especially when she's not with you, as in whenever she visits her mother. I don't know how your baby's mother is going to be but mine was a trip and used to try and have different dudes around our daughter. Once I found out I made sure to tell my baby's mother that until she got that shyt straightened out she wasn't going to see our daughter unless she was alone. Once again leading by example because you don't want her to see her mother bringing different dudes around thinking that's how it's supposed to be.
The last thing I can think of is try to surround your daughter with positive female figures in her life. I wasn't good at picking out dresses and getting my daughter in and out of dresses but that's what my mother was for. Also, I never was good with doing hair, but you will see that there will be plenty of females volunteering to help you out with whatever you need help with. But other than that, keep doing what you're doing man. Love her with all your heart and make sure that you show her how a young lady is supposed to be treated. Just you asking for advise is a step in the right direction and shows that you do care. I can't tell you it's going to be easy but I will tell you that everything that you're doing now is worth it.
Lead by example, don't even let your daughter see you bringing in different females because you don't want her to think this is how it's supposed to be. This is the most impressionable time in her life. Before I got married, my daughter only met 2 women that I was dating and the 2nd one ended up being my wife. Only when you think you're going to get serious with a chick is when you start bringing her around your daughter. Look at it this way, let whomever you decide to be with prove that they are worthy to meet your daughter.
Another thing is to make sure you always keep that line of communication open. Never, ever let her think that she can't tell you anything. You got to have that relationship with your daughter especially when she's not with you, as in whenever she visits her mother. I don't know how your baby's mother is going to be but mine was a trip and used to try and have different dudes around our daughter. Once I found out I made sure to tell my baby's mother that until she got that shyt straightened out she wasn't going to see our daughter unless she was alone. Once again leading by example because you don't want her to see her mother bringing different dudes around thinking that's how it's supposed to be.
The last thing I can think of is try to surround your daughter with positive female figures in her life. I wasn't good at picking out dresses and getting my daughter in and out of dresses but that's what my mother was for. Also, I never was good with doing hair, but you will see that there will be plenty of females volunteering to help you out with whatever you need help with. But other than that, keep doing what you're doing man. Love her with all your heart and make sure that you show her how a young lady is supposed to be treated. Just you asking for advise is a step in the right direction and shows that you do care. I can't tell you it's going to be easy but I will tell you that everything that you're doing now is worth it.
Silver Surfer
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you should be loking for another girl to come in and help out
props my G for not being a deadbeat...you will be iight my G...Just continue to do your best and stay positive
ClassyME
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bytch rather argue n talk shyt in front of my daughter so i took both us out the enviornment. She can come back TO HER LIFE when she gets her shyt together but not until then.
Im having to teach her to sit with her legs closed, how to not lie for convineince, how to not be thirsty for attention and act out in class, and how to not be a crybaby for starters. And im not tryin to have women runnin thru like track meets in front of her but a nikka got needs
sometimes its best for little girls to be raised by their fathers. If their environment is negative and you can provide a more positive life for her then DO IT. Its good to know who your mother is but you can't force anyone to be a mother. She'll grow up being a tough cookie, (prolly a tomboy maybe for the 1st 14 yrs of her life
) but.... fukk whoever said men can't raise their kids just as good as a mother could. Granted there's always that motherly instinct but a father is still just as good. 
See if you could involve your mother, sisters, female cousins, and even female best friends in her life... To guide her.
You're doing the best you can, just don't ever doubt yourself. Keep giving your lil girl the best you can and maybe her mother will realize the mistake she made soon and come around 