Being broke is not the wave

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I been grinding, staying lowkey.

I know my girl ain’t feeling it. I got a feeling she gon leave my ass soon, or cheat on me:francis:

But when I’m down bad I can’t even think straight really. Both of my checks are already budgeted out for the month, so I’m like:unimpressed:at work

I been working on about 3 different hustles after I get off and on the weekends. Waiting on one to blow up. Shyt taking forever though.

It ain’t fair to my ol lady but that’s how the game go:francis:

DOES YOUR GIRL WORK?


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DOES YOUR GIRL WORK?


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Yes, part time In between college classes. To be real she younger, she just turned 21. We don’t live together, she got another year left doing the school thing. She don’t be going to class half the time but that’s on her

The regular sex is cool but I know she don’t like it when I be ducked off. And she wanna know what I got going on, but she don’t understand when I be talking about credit, ROI, how to get more leads, convert them to paying clients etc. I think she don’t care, that’s not her lane:ld:and that’s fine.

I didn’t wanna pull that card but I told myself, when I move back to Atlanta i was gon find an entrepreneur type chick or something. Maybe someone who works out like I do. I just know I’m not doing right by her by being ducked off, and only linking every now and then, most of the time it’s to Fck:francis:
 

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Drop her, you’re young. Stay focused, keep hustling, you’ll be happier because you will only have to worry about yourself while you’re in a selfish part of life(absolutely nothing wrong with that and totally necessary to level up imo) and it sounds like you guys have different world views.
 
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Had about 20k in student loans. Got em down to 16k and started making min payments to stay current.

Trying to get 3 hustles off the ground. I need about another 15k to make another play, and got a loan payment coming in every month, I’m starting to feel the heat. I can’t let them folks Fck up my credit again if I start missing payments:francis:

I’m blessed to have a job where I can invest 2k a month. Live lowkey. Drive an 04 Camry etc. But I’ll be getting fired in the spring:mjcry::yeshrug:im getting anxiety going back to being assed out

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you need a new broad....
 

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Most women are dream killers. You gotta find you one who wants you to come up. A lot of them just want a regular dude who works a regular job with regular money. A lot of that is due to their own insecurities.
 
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My debt when I left college was 16k, back in 2006-2007. I took a year and focused on that shyt like a lunatic, put every penny into those monthly payments and paid well above the minimum. Took me about 12 months to knock that shyt out but let me tell you.....there's no better feeling than living debt free. My savings account been popping ever since. Sacrifice now when you're in your 20s and live debt free in your 30s.

When I made the last payment I called those mofos and told them to close my account and send me a letter stating my loan had been paid off 100%. Still have that letter to this day. Debt is a hell.
 

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you need a new broad....
As far as someone who can motivate inspire, etc? To be honest she hasn’t been complaining. I just know she would prefer if I had more time. Only
Thing she told me was her friend was in her ear last weekend like “I wouldn’t let him do me like that, not spend that time with me etc” but she wasn’t trippen off that.


Most women are dream killers. You gotta find you one who wants you to come up. A lot of them just want a regular dude who works a regular job with regular money. A lot of that is due to their own insecurities.
That’s the thing too. I don’t think she’s hating, she just doesn’t fully understand what I do. She doesn’t know about business. So to her, whenever I’m not with her I’m “working on that stuff”.
 

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I been grinding, staying lowkey.

I know my girl ain’t feeling it. I got a feeling she gon leave my ass soon, or cheat on me:francis:

But when I’m down bad I can’t even think straight really. Both of my checks are already budgeted out for the month, so I’m like:unimpressed:at work

I been working on about 3 different hustles after I get off and on the weekends. Waiting on one to blow up. Shyt taking forever though.

It ain’t fair to my ol lady but that’s how the game go:francis:
What is your girl bringing to the table? If you think she gone leave you because a rough patch maybe you might wanna cut ties before you too deep.

Or you rightfully so could just be overreacting due to a stressful situation. Sound like you wanna do more for her but can't at the moment.

Edit : after reading further sound like you wanna put more into the relationship than her . She ain't even going to class & you busting your ass. The fact y'all don't even live together & you stressing this hard :scust:

Are your needs taken care of? Worry about that first then her , then whatever wants y'all have.
 

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As far as someone who can motivate inspire, etc? To be honest she hasn’t been complaining. I just know she would prefer if I had more time. Only
Thing she told me was her friend was in her ear last weekend like “I wouldn’t let him do me like that, not spend that time with me etc” but she wasn’t trippen off that.



That’s the thing too. I don’t think she’s hating, she just doesn’t fully understand what I do. She doesn’t know about business. So to her, whenever I’m not with her I’m “working on that stuff”.

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As far as someone who can motivate inspire, etc? To be honest she hasn’t been complaining. I just know she would prefer if I had more time. Only
Thing she told me was her friend was in her ear last weekend like “I wouldn’t let him do me like that, not spend that time with me etc” but she wasn’t trippen off that.



That’s the thing too. I don’t think she’s hating, she just doesn’t fully understand what I do. She doesn’t know about business. So to her, whenever I’m not with her I’m “working on that stuff”.

Then put her to work. She should be helping you out with whatever you're doing
 

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just when my cannabis shyt started slowing down i meet my now ex. we even did the poly thing and had a sexy indian on the side. but i lied about some stupid shyt and i think if i was getting bread like when we first met she would have let it slide. and really its hard cuz she pull five figures a month so thats hard to keep up with. she didnt say nothing about the disproportionate earnings until we had the break up convo. smh
 

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I been grinding, staying lowkey.

I know my girl ain’t feeling it. I got a feeling she gon leave my ass soon, or cheat on me:francis:

But when I’m down bad I can’t even think straight really. Both of my checks are already budgeted out for the month, so I’m like:unimpressed:at work

I been working on about 3 different hustles after I get off and on the weekends. Waiting on one to blow up. Shyt taking forever though.

It ain’t fair to my ol lady but that’s how the game go:francis:
I've been there, it sucks when you feel like no one is in your corner
 
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