being introverted can be a gift and a curse.
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
It sucks when you meet people who feel like you don't like them if you don't hit them up everyday or reply back by a certain time. Sometimes, I have nothing to say, and sometimes I'm busy with me time. Yes, being by myself is important. I need to unplug from the world and recharge myself.
For me it got to the point I don't even save people's numbers or even ask for someone's number... You should see my inbox
It's just numbers with no names.My phone's been dead for hours and I don't feel the need to charge it..
working with a bunch of extroverted muthafukkas at work every day from 9-5 is a the worst. Shut up and do your fukking job
Then you get criticized for not being social enough
Then you get criticized for not being social enough
I mean no disrespect whatsoever.
It really, really sounds like a couple of you may have social anxiety.
My closest friend is an INTJ and back in high school, while I had to beg son to come to certain parties with us, he could still function.
I would definitely notice a decrease in his energy level after a couple of hours, but breh could make small talk and play my wing man when the situation called for it.
If you're getting choked up over casual meet and greet conversation, or you're the type to be going for milk and see someone you recognize in the dairy aisle, so you walk down the canned goods section instead and pretend to be looking for something else until the coast is clear, you may have an underlying issue that goes deeper than simple extroversion & introversion.
It really, really sounds like a couple of you may have social anxiety.
My closest friend is an INTJ and back in high school, while I had to beg son to come to certain parties with us, he could still function.
I would definitely notice a decrease in his energy level after a couple of hours, but breh could make small talk and play my wing man when the situation called for it.
If you're getting choked up over casual meet and greet conversation, or you're the type to be going for milk and see someone you recognize in the dairy aisle, so you walk down the canned goods section instead and pretend to be looking for something else until the coast is clear, you may have an underlying issue that goes deeper than simple extroversion & introversion.
thats the only problem. id rather have a job where i dont have to speak much. i can just do what i have to do and go home.working with a bunch of extroverted muthafukkas at work every day from 9-5 is a the worst. Shut up and do your fukking job
Then you get criticized for not being social enough
JerseyBoy23
Veteran
Or when you decline to hang out once and they take it personally or think you don't like them.
i have 4 non family members numbers. i dont text them much. cause people dont try anymore.For me it got to the point I don't even save people's numbers or even ask for someone's number... You should see my inbox
well its talking to females that i have interest in. thats about it. and just being swarmed by alot of people. i could have a good conversation with alot of people if i have a friend as a wingman. hell i could make a speech just fine. and ive done the grocery store thing at times. when it was people i didnt really feel like talking to. if its a friend i wont hesitate to run up and talk
philmonroe
Superstar
Honestly when folks start this shyt but be all up on the nets I can't but feel y'all cats insecure about yourselves and wish y'all could be extroverted
