Being nice to her does not mean she owe you some puss

[RoCKetSity256]

What exactly is one doing when he accepts himself?

 

[Will Ross]

I feel women owe me p*ssy just cause. if you don't feel the same way then you lost

 

[jfkennedy]

If everyone said what they feel then men wouldn't feel women owed them anything, and women wouldn't feel like they're being taken advantage of just for some ass.

But men lie, women lie.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

OH LOOK IT'S THIS INTERNET DEBATE FOR THE 9342908751309845th time.

Look, I'm not defending being nice as a tactic, but it's fukking stupid to act like these are bad guys that are borderline rapists that need to be shamed and hated for how they treat women. Despite what their motive is, the bottom line is that they're giving women what they say that they want and what they've asked for, for years. The people that hate on the guys that treat women well in hopes for a relationship or assert that they do it for the sake of getting p*ssy are of two types: Feminists in denial and internet white knights that think that by agreeing with women online, they separate themselves from these guys in order to make themselves more attractive.

Here's a few reasons why shaming these guys for the reasons that you do is retarded:

• Men (of this generation at least) have been told their whole lives via after school specials and other media outlets that all women want in the end is a "nice guy" unlike the jerks that hurt them so often.
• Men who are "nice guys" are guys that are outright giving feminist types the treatment that they want: pillow fisted and gentle treatment along with praise and nice things.
• Men that fall into this category don't consider themselves entitled in the way that you say. If they felt entitled, they wouldn't be working so hard for it. People who feel entitled to something don't really work for it because they... wait for it... feel entitled.
• Feminists and other women that shame these men are having a hard time coming to terms with the reality that they really aren't attracted to the men that give them the treatment that they SAY they want, so they try and project the motivation for how they behave onto the men in order to distract from their own selfish nature.
• Now I'm not saying p*ssy is owed for being good to someone, but a one sided friendship is not really worth it. Sorry ladies, your friendship is not that enthralling.
• It doesn't have to be p*ssy, but to think that you don't have to give anything in return for someone being so good to you makes you the selfish person.

A woman isn't under any obligation to return romantic feelings or sex for someone being good to her, but to outright hate that a guy is being good to her in order to prove that he'd be a devoted boyfriend and an appreciative lover is just stupid and makes the woman look like she's the entitled one. On top of all that, no shyt that fukking hurts. I mean, who the hell wants to see someone that they have romantic feelings for as a friend, only to repeatedly get hurt over and over again by guys that treat her badly?

Oh wait, he's the selfish one, treating her well and being as patient as possible watching her get run through by shytty guys. No, the guy trying to prove how good he'd be to her is the dikk.

Again, I think that being "nice" is a stupid goddamn tactic and I don't do it, but I sure as hell don't shame these guys like you do. If you're the type of women who bytches about this kind of guy, chances are you're a shytty friend to begin with. There's not a lot to be had out of being your emotional tampon through all your shytty decisions.

 

[King P]

That's why "nice"guys finish last.

Cuz most "nice" guys is frauds

 

[Ain't That Something]

What exactly is one doing when he accepts himself?

Glad you ask.

It is to accept that you are not as desirable as you want others to believe or view you. Realise what your personal flaws or character issues are, set up a plan to work and improve on them, and focus on discover who you are as a man and where you want to go as a man. Put in place a plan to be that man.

 

[Houston911]

Where they at? For research purposes... :word:

edit: N/M Thought you meant on here.

@aRoMaN21

Come holla at champ

 

[DaChampIsHere]

@aRoMaN21

Come holla at champ

She white. I keep my money in the black community.

 

[concise]

Some women actually believe theyre obligated to let a guy beat just because he bought them dinnsr :deadpac:

I'm sure someone has made the thread wherever it's needed as well.

I don't think anyone actually believes that it does...

I'm sure that plenty do.

OH LOOK IT'S THIS INTERNET DEBATE FOR THE 9342908751309845th time.

Look, I'm not defending being nice as a tactic, but it's fukking stupid to act like these are bad guys that are borderline rapists that need to be shamed and hated for how they treat women. Despite what their motive is, the bottom line is that they're giving women what they say that they want and what they've asked for, for years. The people that hate on the guys that treat women well in hopes for a relationship or assert that they do it for the sake of getting p*ssy are of two types: Feminists in denial and internet white knights that think that by agreeing with women online, they separate themselves from these guys in order to make themselves more attractive.

Here's a few reasons why shaming these guys for the reasons that you do is retarded:

• Men (of this generation at least) have been told their whole lives via after school specials and other media outlets that all women want in the end is a "nice guy" unlike the jerks that hurt them so often.
• Men who are "nice guys" are guys that are outright giving feminist types the treatment that they want: pillow fisted and gentle treatment along with praise and nice things.
• Men that fall into this category don't consider themselves entitled in the way that you say. If they felt entitled, they wouldn't be working so hard for it. People who feel entitled to something don't really work for it because they... wait for it... feel entitled.
• Feminists and other women that shame these men are having a hard time coming to terms with the reality that they really aren't attracted to the men that give them the treatment that they SAY they want, so they try and project the motivation for how they behave onto the men in order to distract from their own selfish nature.
• Now I'm not saying p*ssy is owed for being good to someone, but a one sided friendship is not really worth it. Sorry ladies, your friendship is not that enthralling.
• It doesn't have to be p*ssy, but to think that you don't have to give anything in return for someone being so good to you makes you the selfish person.

A woman isn't under any obligation to return romantic feelings or sex for someone being good to her, but to outright hate that a guy is being good to her in order to prove that he'd be a devoted boyfriend and an appreciative lover is just stupid and makes the woman look like she's the entitled one. On top of all that, no shyt that fukking hurts. I mean, who the hell wants to see someone that they have romantic feelings for as a friend, only to repeatedly get hurt over and over again by guys that treat her badly?

Oh wait, he's the selfish one, treating her well and being as patient as possible watching her get run through by shytty guys. No, the guy trying to prove how good he'd be to her is the dikk.

Again, I think that being "nice" is a stupid goddamn tactic and I don't do it, but I sure as hell don't shame these guys like you do. If you're the type of women who bytches about this kind of guy, chances are you're a shytty friend to begin with. There's not a lot to be had out of being your emotional tampon through all your shytty decisions.

Oh, you've arrived.
Like you said, it doesn't have to be p*ssy, but then you're getting agitated over not getting p*ssy.

So which one is it?

 

[Ain't That Something]

OH LOOK IT'S THIS INTERNET DEBATE FOR THE 9342908751309845th time.

Look, I'm not defending being nice as a tactic, but it's fukking stupid to act like these are bad guys that are borderline rapists that need to be shamed and hated for how they treat women. Despite what their motive is, the bottom line is that they're giving women what they say that they want and what they've asked for, for years. The people that hate on the guys that treat women well in hopes for a relationship or assert that they do it for the sake of getting p*ssy are of two types: Feminists in denial and internet white knights that think that by agreeing with women online, they separate themselves from these guys in order to make themselves more attractive.

Here's a few reasons why shaming these guys for the reasons that you do is retarded:

• Men (of this generation at least) have been told their whole lives via after school specials and other media outlets that all women want in the end is a "nice guy" unlike the jerks that hurt them so often.
• Men who are "nice guys" are guys that are outright giving feminist types the treatment that they want: pillow fisted and gentle treatment along with praise and nice things.
• Men that fall into this category don't consider themselves entitled in the way that you say. If they felt entitled, they wouldn't be working so hard for it. People who feel entitled to something don't really work for it because they... wait for it... feel entitled.
• Feminists and other women that shame these men are having a hard time coming to terms with the reality that they really aren't attracted to the men that give them the treatment that they SAY they want, so they try and project the motivation for how they behave onto the men in order to distract from their own selfish nature.
• Now I'm not saying p*ssy is owed for being good to someone, but a one sided friendship is not really worth it. Sorry ladies, your friendship is not that enthralling.
• It doesn't have to be p*ssy, but to think that you don't have to give anything in return for someone being so good to you makes you the selfish person.

A woman isn't under any obligation to return romantic feelings or sex for someone being good to her, but to outright hate that a guy is being good to her in order to prove that he'd be a devoted boyfriend and an appreciative lover is just stupid and makes the woman look like she's the entitled one. On top of all that, no shyt that fukking hurts. I mean, who the hell wants to see someone that they have romantic feelings for as a friend, only to repeatedly get hurt over and over again by guys that treat her badly?

Oh wait, he's the selfish one, treating her well and being as patient as possible watching her get run through by shytty guys. No, the guy trying to prove how good he'd be to her is the dikk.

Again, I think that being "nice" is a stupid goddamn tactic and I don't do it, but I sure as hell don't shame these guys like you do. If you're the type of women who bytches about this kind of guy, chances are you're a shytty friend to begin with. There's not a lot to be had out of being your emotional tampon through all your shytty decisions.

I have yet shame these dudes nor coin them rapist. To blame the feminist movement is all fine and all but what are the steps after that. Should they focus on self pity, anger, and blame placement or do they need to realise that they are a man now and at the end of the day they are ultimately accountable for how their treated as a man, then take the appropriate step to get the results they want. One of my brehs told me people only treat you as bad as you let them.

 

[L&HH]

This is very true but y'all this needs to be said tho. I was chilling with this one shawty over the weekend and saw that she still had kept some Valentine's gift (a pillow that said "Be Mine").

My intial reaction was I thought females normally didnt keep things from their exes. She hit me like I've never been in no relationship. And Im like so why is a nikka buying you Valentine's gifts. She's like I dont know he just was being nice and wanted to take me out. Im like so he took you out on a date on Valentine day and bought you gifts. She said yea. I just broke it down to her like real talk that nikka fukking the game up, wtf is he doing all that shyt for on Valentines Day when y'all dont even go out . She didnt even like the nikka..

So yeah man shyt ike this does need to be said, unfortunately.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I'm sure someone has made the thread wherever it's needed as well.







I'm sure that plenty do.



Oh, you've arrived.
Like you said, it doesn't have to be p*ssy, but then you're getting agitated over not getting p*ssy.

So which one is it?

Agitated over not getting p*ssy despite saying that p*ssy isn't owed?

 

[Will Ross]

Most nice guys don't win not because they are nice but because they act like the women are doing them a favor. what woman wants to be with a man like that. a woman want to feel like her man is wanted by other women.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I have yet shame these dudes nor coin them rapist. To blame the feminist movement is all fine and all but what are the steps after that. Should they focus on self pity, anger, and blame placement or do they need to realise that they are a man now and at the end of the day they are ultimately accountable for how their treated as a man, then take the appropriate step to get the results they want. One of my brehs told me people only treat you as bad as you let them.

I agree that they need to take responsibility. You've got me 100% on that!

It's a lesson that I learned the hard way several years ago. (goddamn it makes me feel old to write it that way) So it admittedly stings a bit. I personally would direct them to the lil' gems on dealing with women thread, and perhaps even the show room and the gym threads here just to get a guy's feet under him so he'll never, ever have to deal with this shyt again.

 

[sfgiants]

women are sharing themselves at an alarming rate
given the price of gas and other variables, im not driving to her crib, picking her up, goin out to eat just for "fun"

like when i was in college and a girl would come over at 10/11 oclock at night but would act like she just "wants to hang out'