Being single with no kids is pretty much living life in a cheat code.

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

As a woman I’m not allowed to agree with you but... I feel u OP.

I’ll just say this, I think there are pros and cons to either lifestyle.

Happiness is about knowing urself and being honest about what u truly want to minimize regrets. As long as you know you and choose what aligns closest to what YOU want outside of the influence of others, you will be straight.

 

[Marzupial]

That's not a program. That's reality.

Impressing females is not a program, it's male nature. It was like that since pre-historic times.

Nope

That's a program

Atracttion comes naturally with pheromones and hormones, the program makes you believe you need materials and tricks to impress them

Nothing natural about that, at all, and that's time that could be wasted on better things, like telepathy

Now that's reality

 

[Michael's Black Son]

It’s like your worries are about 75% less compared to the average married breh with kids.
My disposable income is insane, I don’t have to worry about any mouths to feed, can take any job anywhere around the world and leave just like that.

When it comes to females, I’m sure i don’t have tell y’all what it’s like for a single man with his own place and no kids.

People see me all the time and wonder why I look so young for my age (35) and even though black don’t crack, I also think another reason is that it’s basically a stress free life for the most part.
I feel like I’m living life using a cheat code and long may it continue

Anyone that says different is either ugly gang, Larry Holmes status, a single mom whose baby dad can’t stand her ass, broke or got hitched way too young.

 

[Balla]

Nobody has shamed him though. Offering a different viewpoint is shaming? Kinda p*ssy shyt is that?

Sounds like projection to me.

Kinda p*ssy shyt u talking bout? I read a post that said they were shaming him. So I said what the fukk I said.

You feel some type of way bout my comment? Lmao

 

[⠀X ⠀]

True. Money is a bit tight now, but I don’t have 3 little ones with open mouths, or a wife looking at me like

for that, I am thankful

 

[mag357]

You nikkaz must dont live in the real world

Muthafukaz like "ain't nothing like coming home to a good woman and some kids"

Can u nikkaz get all the way the fukk outta here with that shyt...

Damn near half them bytches is cheating on u...
A third of them kids ain't urs...
And the bytch is more than likely to file for divorce on you, while ur on thecoli talking bout "a good woman to come home to"


People with kids and a wife can find joy in that shyt... that's all they can do.
Its life...

But let's not sit here and act like being a settled, single man, with no kids, isnt the GOAT lifestyle.

Your money is your money... your time is your time

 

[Bolzmark]

There are pros and cons to both being single with no kids and having a family. The things OP said are right. And the things some said about marriage and kids are right. But I think its hard to beat the freedom of being single. You can do whatever you want. Whenever you want. When you got a family, you're priority is them and their needs. And you can transition out of the single life pretty easily if you're tired of it. Getting out of married life? Thats gonna come with a lot of headache and stress. I've had men AND women tell me to never get married. But yeah if its a happy marriage, hard to beat that. If it's a bad marriage, hard to get more miserable than that.

 

[mag357]

Be 60 years old with no family... Scrambling for companionship as a hooker steals your SS checks brehs...

Or
Be 60 years old with family... Scrambling for companionship as a hooker steals your SS checks brehs...

Or

Be 60yrs old with a family...
And ur family stealing ur SS checks brehs

 

[Sad Bunny]

Married. No kids.

Dual income.

Travel and stacking and freedom.

Love it. Lol.

 

[Balla]

That's not a program. That's reality.

Impressing females is not a program, it's male nature. It was like that since pre-historic times.

Are you married?

 

[Balla]

I don’t think anyone wants to be alone, men know a woman can fukk they life up if they really want to with a divorce or child support.

If you have a good career and bored with being single start a family with a good woman.

But how rare is that? How many women you know just wanna make you happy and aren’t selfish?

Not many.

Plus men get shamed because they want to enjoy their whole youth, while women need to have kids at a certain age.

Being single gets old too and no one wants to keep trying to go out all the time.

Pros and cons to both.

 

[StretfordRed]

Can’t be shamed. I’ve already decided I’m not gonna have kids and I’m fine with that decision. Not gonna change my mind because of random internet people

Then why you making a thread for random internet people

 

[African Peasant]

Nope

That's a program

Atracttion comes naturally with pheromones and hormones, the program makes you believe you need materials and tricks to impress them

Nothing natural about that, at all, and that's time that could be wasted on better things, like telepathy

Now that's reality

You're the one who brought materials into this. Men been fighting and doing all kinds of things over and for women since forever. It's even the case in the animal kingdom.

Everything is not a "social construct'.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Why do you guys act like you can start a family in your 40s?

stop that you gonna be lonely shyt

I’m 25. I can easily live another 15,16, or even 17 years living up single and doing what I want to do before I finally settle down with someone and have a kid. And just imagine all the knowledge I can drop on my kids by then.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

The only downside I could really see about taking to long to have kids is that your loved ones who passed away won’t be able to meet them