Being Social And Living/Being With Someone Who Is Anti-social/Introverted

[DaChampIsHere]

Been lettin' this girl stay with me for a little bit and I first I thought her being "introverted" would be cool on some opposites attract type shyt, but so far I've been let down.

First off, her social skills aren't super bad, but every once in a while (like every day) she'll say some shyt that'll have me thinking "wow, this chick is lame AF " or like, she'll find the one thing she wants to talk about and then try to stay on that subject for a good 10 minutes while being quiet any other time.

I'd say the fact that I know she's always at home waiting makes me inclined to stay out even more, cause I don't wanna be around her. Told her mid week that we should just be friends and completely cut the fukking part of things. I didn't even come home last night. Not coming home tonight either.

It's like she seriously has no life outside of me and that makes me uncomfortable because that's a lot of responsibility to handle that I don't want. She leavin' next week so I'm just riding it out til then.

Plus the sex is wack AF.

Also, is this what being married feels like? I've let girls stay with me all the time before but they usually have social lives or at least have moves they invite me to with them. I'm thinking to myself, holy fukk, what if being older and married is like this shyt I'd go crazy

 

[Dwolf]

How fat is the ass?

 

[???]

your generation sucks

 

[DaChampIsHere]

your generation sucks

She's actually a few years older than me. Definite 80s baby.

Gotta thing for the older biddies.

 

[Geek]

I sort of know that feeling.

I just dont give a fukk.

Let them sink or swim.

If they family and they need help Im here to help. Man the fukk up.

 

[Wild self]

Still troubled by that shyt?

 

[flea]

I know that feeling when u realize "damn this bytch is lame as fukk "

Chick I dated fooled me into thinking she was cool and into what I'm into. Wrong. She started slipping and her wackness started oozing. First fight we got into i took that opportunity to just break up. Smartest move ever

 

[Jesus]

Post her pic...

 

[Ohene]

I know that feeling when u realize "damn this bytch is lame as fukk "
She started slipping and her wackness started oozing.

that shyt is the worst;...especially when they look good

 

[jalamanta]

I've let girls stay with me all the time before but they usually have other nikkas to fukk or at least have moves they invite me to with them. I'm thinking to myself, holy fukk, what if being older and married is like this shyt I'd go crazy

fixed

 

[Reality]

I know that feeling when u realize "damn this bytch is lame as fukk "

Chick I dated fooled me into thinking she was cool and into what I'm into. Wrong. She started slipping and her wackness started oozing. First fight we got into i took that opportunity to just break up. Smartest move ever

wait...we care about personalities now??? smash and grab brehs. tryin to cuff hoes in '14 = doin it wrong.

curious what she said/did that tipped you she was lame, though

 

[Smokin Rider]

You want a woman who talks all day ? I wish I could find a bish that would stfu for a few minutes

 

[flea]

wait...we care about personalities now??? smash and grab brehs. tryin to cuff hoes in '14 = doin it wrong.

curious what she said/did that tipped you she was lame, though

I had been single and running through hoes for two years and just felt like settling down with a bytch

And it was more like a collection of things. Sometimes she dressed wack, I'd talk to my boy and she'd cut in the convo like she don't see two men talking and know her place. She giggled at all her wack jokes. Sometimes she'd try to talk "hood" that was the worst. I mean we both do live in the hood but I hate when hoes do that. U know how to talk proper bytch

 

[Crakface]

Been lettin' this girl stay with me for a little bit and I first I thought her being "introverted" would be cool on some opposites attract type shyt, but so far I've been let down.

First off, her social skills aren't super bad, but every once in a while (like every day) she'll say some shyt that'll have me thinking "wow, this chick is lame AF " or like, she'll find the one thing she wants to talk about and then try to stay on that subject for a good 10 minutes while being quiet any other time.

I'd say the fact that I know she's always at home waiting makes me inclined to stay out even more, cause I don't wanna be around her. Told her mid week that we should just be friends and completely cut the fukking part of things. I didn't even come home last night. Not coming home tonight either.

It's like she seriously has no life outside of me and that makes me uncomfortable because that's a lot of responsibility to handle that I don't want. She leavin' next week so I'm just riding it out til then.

Plus the sex is wack AF.

Also, is this what being married feels like? I've let girls stay with me all the time before but they usually have social lives or at least have moves they invite me to with them. I'm thinking to myself, holy fukk, what if being older and married is like this shyt I'd go crazy

You just sound lonely. Like a nikka with no real options and you're going through one of those slumps where your best thing is a female you arent compatible with but stick around because shes available and seems loyal.

 

[StickStickly]

What is she saying that's so lame?


What's your definition of lame?