Being Social And Living/Being With Someone Who Is Anti-social/Introverted

Brock Landers

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Sounds like my kinda broad breh :lupe: would probably let me fukk in the back of a cramped Volkswagen :wow: wifey right there
 

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some dudes definition of lame might not be others


Sounds like you need to spice the relationship up. If you're not compatible then you're just not compatible... let her go
 

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You just sound lonely. Like a nikka with no real options and you're going through one of those slumps where your best thing is a female you arent compatible with but stick around because shes available and seems loyal.
:mjlol: I think the-coli is the only place where being a good friend/person can be misconstrued as being "lonely". Maybe because nikkas on here aren't used to having friends/are introverted? :lupe:

Nah, I actually live in a pretty major city and a pretty well known alum from my school, so I get a lot of people who want to stay with me a lot, whether they are just visiting or moving into town. This girl happens to be moving into her new spot at the end of this week and just needed some place to stay until then while she's working. She asked, and I understood, so I didn't mind. I don't get what you mean by "stick around". We aren't in a relationship, never have been. And we agreed from jump that we weren't relationship compatible (mostly because I'm strictly non-committal with too many options right now), but I figured we could still be friends.

But now I don't think we can even be that cause it's way worse than I expected. Just would have never guessed she was so introverted. :merchant:

First fight we got into i took that opportunity to just break up. Smartest move ever
:laff: Breh I did this same shyt.

She got locked out the crib and was tryna get me to rush home to let her in. I took my damn time. :mjpls: She started trying to argue through text. I cut her like midway through the convo on some quick shyt. :pachaha:

Last night she was in the crib and got drunk off one smirnoff ice. :mindblown: Then tried to come in my room and sleep with me. I wasn't even insulted by that, just by the fact that she actually bought Smirnoff Ice into my house in the first place. :mindblown:

What is she saying that's so lame? :lupe:
What's your definition of lame?:lupe:
Lame to me, is like, someone who always seems like they are holding back. There's a difference between being quiet and a person who is just insecure and lame. She's a cute girl. Known her for a while but I didn't really know her mannerisms until she moved in with me.

The one time I did take her out all she did was complain about the music, she refused to talk to any nikkas because she was shy (even when I was gettin' at other chicks). But then she'll come home and chat it up with strangers on the internet all day. On the phone with people who live on the other side of the country. Calls people she follows on social networks her friends even though they have no idea who she is. But is quiet as a mouse in real life. The only time she's swagged out with when it's through text. Even the way she carried herself during sex, I could tell she was just an insecure person, and that is lame to me.

Does she cook or clean?
:snoop: This is another thing that got me to. I don't wanna even go too into detail. Just know that she eats like a kid and there's an array of styrofoam plates and cups in my trashcan. :snoop:
 

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:mjlol: I think the-coli is the only place where being a good friend/person can be misconstrued as being "lonely". Maybe because nikkas on here aren't used to having friends/are introverted? :lupe:

Nah, I actually live in a pretty major city and a pretty well known alum from my school, so I get a lot of people who want to stay with me a lot, whether they are just visiting or moving into town. This girl happens to be moving into her new spot at the end of this week and just needed some place to stay until then while she's working. She asked, and I understood, so I didn't mind. I don't get what you mean by "stick around". We aren't in a relationship, never have been. And we agreed from jump that we weren't relationship compatible (mostly because I'm strictly non-committal with too many options right now), but I figured we could still be friends.

But now I don't think we can even be that cause it's way worse than I expected. Just would have never guessed she was so introverted. :merchant:


:laff: Breh I did this same shyt.

She got locked out the crib and was tryna get me to rush home to let her in. I took my damn time. :mjpls: She started trying to argue through text. I cut her like midway through the convo on some quick shyt. :pachaha:

Last night she was in the crib and got drunk off one smirnoff ice. :mindblown: Then tried to come in my room and sleep with me. I wasn't even insulted by that, just by the fact that she actually bought Smirnoff Ice into my house in the first place. :mindblown:


Lame to me, is like, someone who always seems like they are holding back. There's a difference between being quiet and a person who is just insecure and lame. She's a cute girl. Known her for a while but I didn't really know her mannerisms until she moved in with me.

The one time I did take her out all she did was complain about the music, she refused to talk to any nikkas because she was shy (even when I was gettin' at other chicks). But then she'll come home and chat it up with strangers on the internet all day. On the phone with people who live on the other side of the country. Calls people she follows on social networks her friends even though they have no idea who she is. But is quiet as a mouse in real life. The only time she's swagged out with when it's through text. Even the way she carried herself during sex, I could tell she was just an insecure person, and that is lame to me.


:snoop: This is another thing that got me to. I don't wanna even go too into detail. Just know that she eats like a kid and there's an array of styrofoam plates and cups in my trashcan. :snoop:

Breh, you got some reevaluating to do. The bushes does not sound like a bad idea.
 

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When you're not feeling a broad...everything about her makes you sick.

Anywho..I'd take a homebody over an out and about broad any day. But she still has to have her own life and I can't be the only source of entertainment in the relationship.
 

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When you're not feeling a broad...everything about her makes you sick.

Anywho..I'd take a homebody over an out and about broad any day. But she still has to have her own life and I can't be the only source of entertainment in the relationship.
Why would you take a homebody?

I don't understand.
 

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LMAO! This is the exact anxiety I have dealing with this guy.
 

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The older I get, the more I like to chill at home. Especially during the winter. I used to exclusively be with broads who always wanted to do shyt and go out and now that's not my thing.
Sitting at home is a bore especially on the weekends

After work 5 days a week you are a homebody because you have to get up the next day

On the weekend we need to be out here being social, creating memories, hanging with friends and meeting new people.
 
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