Beloved NYC Dept. of Correction captain dies after plastic surgery in the Dominican Republic

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Are those specifically masculine traits? I thought those were strong independent traits, no? :jbhmm:
Those are the traits men say they aren’t primarily looking for in women.

I’m certainly not against women being successful; that’s how my family raised the boys and the girls, but men are saying that they aren’t necessarily checking for us simply because we are successful. If that were the case all the obese, less attractive women with booming careers would all have men.
 

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donda west had plenty of resources available to her, and died cuz of an off-brand doctor as well. I guess people just wanna save money no matter how much money they make.

I may be wrong/mixing people up. But Donda wests dr. Was not offbrand. She died because she didnt follow her post surgery recovery routine.
 

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Those are the traits men say they aren’t primarily looking for in women.

I’m certainly not against women being successful; that’s how my family raised the boys and the girls, but men are saying that they aren’t necessarily checking for us simply because we are successful. If that were the case all the obese, less attractive women with booming careers would all have men.
Fair point. What about going to the gym and eating healthy? Diet and exercise can work wonders.
 

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surgery is dangerous even here in America where there's a high medical standard, people die everyday
stop going to 3rd world countries for anything that has to do with cosmetic surgery

a breh on my facebook died in turkey trying to get a hair transplant, he slipped in to a coma and died.

I was thinking of getting veneers in turkey but fuk that!
 

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Fair point. What about going to the gym and eating healthy? Diet and exercise can work wonders.
I’m about that gym life. Just left an hour ago. Lol I get it.

But that brings us back to the topic at hand- I said these are the women considered unattractive or too old so they are trying to fix their looks to attract a man. You said to attract a man with their success, but men say they don’t really care about our success if we don’t look good. The gym and healthy eating are the best things you can do! But that won’t fix a flat backside or a face considered unattractive 🤷🏾‍♀️

Like I said- these women are taking the plastic route, and we don’t know what they are experiencing that is making them want to do that.

The true thing we must do is learn how to love ourselves and appreciate those who genuinely want to be with us. That’s the real answer.
 

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said these are the women considered unattractive or too old so they are trying to fix their looks to attract a man
Who is a married woman trying to attract ? She got a husband. :jbhmm:
I’m about that gym life. Just left an hour ago. Lol I get it
Good on you. Just came from MMA myself.
 

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Who is a married woman trying to attract ? She got a husband. :jbhmm:

Good on you. Just came from MMA myself.
Good stuff!

And that’s the real question: why was a married woman getting a bbl? Either there was something happening in that marriage, or she was trying to get attention from other men. 🤔
 

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@Gloxina . I get what you are you saying but perhaps therapy is a good idea? Maybe they needed marriage counseling?
Well that’s what I was alluding to. Something must’ve been happening in their marriage and she thought “improving” physically would make the difference.
 

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If there was no reason for her to risk her life so frivolously, we wouldn't be here talking about it.

BBL is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery but there's no shortage of women lining up to risk their lives to get it. Being dismissive about what's motivating this behavior adds nothing to the conversation.
Your argument would make more sense if this were about a single woman possibly trying to attract a mate. But this is about a woman who’s been married for 25+ years to a man who was happy the way she was.
The husband raised objections over the fact that the doctor was a quack.
Bars :wow:
She also seems to not have respected her husband.

First of all if duke said he liked her as she was that should've been enough.

Finally as head of the household the buck should've stopped with him
I think on some level he realized she was doing it for other men and stopped caring at that point
 
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