I see what he’s trying to do (not be the bad guy IN DIVORCE COURT)
but unfortunately the court will only look at the following:
1. How long they were married (10 years in CA = you’re on the hook until she dies).
2. Has she ever reported him for ANYTHING negative to authorities.
3. His availability. If you work, you’re basically fukked because your work time will be awarded to the mother as her custody time plus whenever she’s available.
4. How much you’ve earned during the marriage.
In addition to those things, this post will be used against him to demonstrate he’s trying to manipulate their children. Not a wise move. The best thing to do is remain quiet and present evidence to support his claims and not make this public. He’ll learn the hard way.
