I'm not against marriage, but this thread is full of shaming men for not getting married like they are supposed to ignore all the situations they see of men getting screwed over in divorce, whether they are the 'at fault' party or not. Men rightfully should be hesitant to get married. Marriage to the right person is beautiful and also very rare.
I think it’s shaming men for contributing to the broken Black family dysfunction by getting women pregnant they have no intention of marrying.