Is it fukked up y'all have to deal with this shyt? Yes. Should you be able to walk around butt naked and not even hear an ill word from ANYONE? Yes. Are the men who do these things, some of the lowest men on Earth? Yes. Is any of it fair? No.
But at the end of the day, we ain't talking about what we want it to be.... We talk about what it IS. I tell my son how to act around police, not because it's the way I want things, or fair... But because he's black and a male, he's going to be treated different and it could cost him his life. No matter how I want things to be. No matter how society SHOULD treat him. No matter what, he has face an ill situation and adapt to it, in order to not get harmed...
Same way here... My daughter would know, sure, wear that outfit you want to the frat party... BUT this is the real world. And these piece of shyt rapist drunk ass college motherfukkers will slip something in your drink, rape you, and pin the blame on you cause how you looked walking in... not only that, so will the police, the judge and jury... so if you're going to dress like that, which is your right... Be fukking prepared for all of the worst to happen.
If you are going to post your body online to strange men, these deranged strange men will attack you. You, me, the law can't stop them all.. It's GOING to happen. No it's not OK. But why would I not expect my daughter to know the repercussions that may come, so she ain't BACK on the internet, crying to these same ass men.. And why wouldn't she be prepared for that storm, unless I've let her believe some fairytale, where this isn't going to happen to my little girl.
Again.. no it's not her fault. Yes she's right nobody should say it. Yes she should be able to show cleavage and not hear a peep. No... I'm not going to faint shock and awe, like 1 plus 1 ain't 2... and we haven't known this since the beginning of man and woman
Think about this... She's crying on IG to her fans and they're in the comments saying "stop posting because this fuels these guys to do it more." She's all bewildered like "really guys????" Nobody prepared her for this.