It's all rooted in hypocrisy, entitlement and ego.  Ionno when I was younger I just assumed men had more ego than women due to simply how men are portayed as these chauvinistic, egotistical ass holes in shows, movies etc. Then the fact that in class if you a boy you obviously gonna be competing with other dudes in sports, and games etc
However once I hit late teens, early 20s I started to realize most women are actually more egotistical and far more hypocritical than men. The latter is simply because society holds them less accountable and you know that as a man the law, society and other men will hold you accountable if you don't do so yourself. So we as men as Black men in this society are kept in check.
On the other hand a lot of women especially in this age of women empowerment, don't need no man, blah blah blah legit delude themselves into believing they're Xena warrior princess or super woman or some sht. On top of heavily overvaluing themselves. So 4s think they 7s, 5's think they 8s and 6s think they're 9/10s simply because desperate simps are in their inbox swelling their heads. Most women's goal is one committed attractive long term partner but they foolishly believe those "options" in their dms and real life are potential long term suitors when in reality 98% are dudes simply looking to smash and keep it moving.
So I say all that to say that most women, bws think they're better than their male counterpart. So anything we do they try and police, marginalize or simply demonize the sht. However, if the shoe is on the other foot then all of a sudden it's the best dynamic since sliced bread. It ain't bm calling bws "the weakest link", "bullet bags", or claiming other races "fetishize" us rather than simply fukking with us for our swagger, cool, down to earth-ness, masculinity, creativity, resilience, charming ways and good looks.. naw it gotta be solely cause ww and other races wanna get dikked down.
Meanwhile in their minds it's totally acceptable and normal for crackers to like bw and not just have "jungle fever" or just wanna experiment with them or get an easy lay cause a lot put them on high pedestal. The irony is, when you go on various platforms, cac males openly voice their disdain for bws. A lot are legit boisterous in trying to tear down the psyche or bw. Yet bw delude themselves into believing that wm/bw dynamic works. Yet statistically bw are the least desired group of women in dating.
You don't see ww tearing down bm at the rate wm tear down bw online. Then the data favors the reverse, bm are statistically the 3rd most desired group of men and in some cases 2nd DESPITE crakkas full intent in soiling our name and global reputation and trying to make us out as poor, lazy, thugged out scumbags. With the image cacs have been trying to plaster on us for centuries we should also be the least desired group of males in dating. Crakkas soiled and stereotyped every other group of men purposely to uplift themselves. This is why curry cacs and rice cacs be hating hard on us because just like them our global image has been tarnished but brehs still eat and have no issues smashing a variety of women. A decent black dude will do well across the board and a high value bm eats any and everywhere he steps foot in. If a phenomenon set where Africa rises, repairs it image and blk Americans even simply were to EQUAL not even out pace but equal to cacs in wealth then bm would easily be THE most desired group of men globally. So that tells you all you need to know
Tl;Dr women specifically ours are delusional and egotistical and just steady yapping like the deluded broads they are