OfTheCross
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Of course...the onus is on the men, though. Women are always ready to fall in love and be wifed up. It's men who are slacking.
Blacc women says blacc men need to be putting them in a house by 24
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Piff Perkins
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Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R x 2 🖤🖤🖤🆚🌀🌀
I've gone after these women who are "overlooked" and still got rejected.
they are told they can have both
motionlessZombie
All Star
These bitter females better get off their complaining asses and work for their shyt. This isn't Burger King where you can have it your way. This is real life. And in real life, unless you're inherently wealthy, you gotta work for what you want.
feelosofer
#ninergang
My sons white classmate from college was just bytching about how his parents took out a 2nd mortgage on their house. You'd be surprised at how bad white people are struggling. We over inflate how good white people are really doing out here.
I’m guessing your trolling cause I hope your not that naive to think they not dealing with own bullshxt down there….
I’m all for brehs going overseas to find there s/o but there is levels and nuances to this shxt if you not willing to put the work into you will absolutely get played..
Real talk tho this whole notion that white folks ((and other races as well)) automatically got it figured out is a sickness within its self…inferiority complex at its finest display
Where you want to live is another question. I live in Toronto and make 6 figs while my wife stays at home with our newborn, and guess what, we're still renting lol.
My cousin is an occupational therapist married to an electrician and they bought a mansion in Tennessee for 150k. I wouldn't be caught dead living there...
My cousin is an occupational therapist married to an electrician and they bought a mansion in Tennessee for 150k. I wouldn't be caught dead living there...
We either grinding for a life we can live or GTFO. If your pops ain't paying for the wedding then we grinding. These women will complain about that shyt instead of building that life for their daughters. fukk em. Your wife is your partner. Sometimes you have to pick up the slack, sometimes she gotta pick up the slack. One thing I will tell you about the woman who made the post is, she won't ride when the road gets bumpy. You think she'd be the type to wipe her husband's ass if he broke his neck? Wipe his face clean if he was laid up in the hospital for 6 months? Naw. She'd dip and look for her next meal ticket. Men, stay away from these types. They are not worth it. The ones that lift you up, help you see your worth, and push you to ge better, they're the ones you wife.
Yep, and just like a fixer upper home, the same logic applies to relationships. Sure you have your baseline criteria that needs to be met, but things like salary, clothing, lifestyle can all be learned and will evolve naturally. What is that person's potential? Maybe they're at 70k this year but if they're on the upswing they'll be making 6 figs in maybe two years, but you passed on them now instead of sticking with them - knowing that a relationship is meant to be a long term game anyways. Instead you picked a toxic ass dude with no foundation, who was making 6 figs but now he's fired from his job and burned his reputation.
With the right partner and motivation, you can hit the gym and buy nicer clothes and adopt a more active lifestyle. This can all be taught. You have to be able to gauge people based on their personality and POTENTIAL to grow and evolve in a relationship. Kindness, empathy, work ethic, values, these shouldn't be compromised and should be your compass in finding a potential partner.
It's mindboggling how fukking stupid people are nowadays when it comes to mating and courtship
Them same white girls realize “hot girl summer” is something you have your junior year of college and not from 19-41 years old.
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White people in general are boring rule-followers so they create systems to reflect that. Getting married fairly young and buying a home is pretty basic stuff for them.
I agree with the poster who said most black women are not prepared for marriage at 24 unless they came from marriage and their mothers prepared them for the responsibility. Black women tend to be independent in mind, body, and spirit and marriage is pretty much the antithesis of that.
Having said that, I think if black women create a culture of marriage prep/finishing schools we could shift the odds in our favor. Not the "divest" or "pink pill" stuff but training around how to develop healthy co-dependencies, win by losing, save the criticism for the RIGHT TIME, anticipate a man's needs, etc. These are the areas I think we as black women struggle with and it prevents many of us from being seen as more than just a headache/drama.
I agree with the poster who said most black women are not prepared for marriage at 24 unless they came from marriage and their mothers prepared them for the responsibility. Black women tend to be independent in mind, body, and spirit and marriage is pretty much the antithesis of that.
Having said that, I think if black women create a culture of marriage prep/finishing schools we could shift the odds in our favor. Not the "divest" or "pink pill" stuff but training around how to develop healthy co-dependencies, win by losing, save the criticism for the RIGHT TIME, anticipate a man's needs, etc. These are the areas I think we as black women struggle with and it prevents many of us from being seen as more than just a headache/drama.
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
If y’all created that and took seriously the resources invested in it for yourselves, you could get any man from any background or race easier. It would create an exclusivity, leverage and a monopoly for y’all, and the men that want women that were raised to be spouses and handle family matters(like inheritance) would concede more. And you would treasure your own assets and really leverage what you are giving, and get with men that actually have foundations their parents invested into them.White people in general are boring rule-followers so they create systems to reflect that. Getting married fairly young and buying a home is pretty basic stuff for them.
I agree with the poster who said most black women are not prepared for marriage at 24 unless they came from marriage and their mothers prepared them for the responsibility. Black women tend to be independent in mind, body, and spirit and marriage is pretty much the antithesis of that.
Having said that, I think if black women create a culture of marriage prep/finishing schools we could shift the odds in our favor. Not the "divest" or "pink pill" stuff but training around how to develop healthy co-dependencies, win by losing, save the criticism for the RIGHT TIME, anticipate a man's needs, etc. These are the areas I think we as black women struggle with and it prevents many of us from being seen as more than just a headache/drama.
This freaknik culture needs to go back underground on both sides
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Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
This is false
My teacher said it best when I asked don't you feel bad for ugly women?
"If she got a p*ssy, she can twerk it"