Black American women step into my office.

[EpicStoryTeller]

If a nigerian woman is looking for a 6 figure man, she's smart and wants a provider or recognizes a man's potential. If an AA woman does the same she's a gold digger run through by thugs and looking for a simp.
If a black Latina acts crazy and has an attitude, she's feisty with good p*ssy, an AA woman would be loud, ghetto and not know how to act.


I have to go to bed

It is what it is

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

AA women get threads made on here daily. Its just that the threads are usually for named actresses and models so their heritage is not identified unlike obscure Ethiopians or Pawgs or whatever else gets hyped.

I hadn't thought of it like that but you're right. Fair enough.

American women

If a lot of brothers of various ages, of various locations, not just on the Coli but various places, have brought up that black american women tend to act a certain way towards them until they start getting older and desperate, are they ALL lying, or is it possible there might be some truth to it?

I'm noticing a pattern. A) I don't disagree with you, please allow me to re-imagine the bolded. Black American women mature in time and their tastes in men changes because they want security and are tired of the game. B) Naw, there's gotta be some truth in it. C)romantic arrested development is what I call it. It affects BM&BW. We remain teenagers romantically longer than we should. I had to mature mentally and emotionally before I snapped out the bad bytch phase. I'm 26. I think I'm where I'm supposed to be romantically which is looking for a partner and not a trophy.

because it seems like if a dude says anything about black women that isn't praise, he automatically gets called a "black woman hater". Even if he is the type who critiques black men too.

Well, when someone consistently posts negative sweeping statements about BW it's fair to call them a BW hater. Also, I've seen BW get attacked on here for criticizing black men. @WHIPPEDCream is getting roasted at this very moment for that.

She criticized all men, and it got spun into her attacking black men. She got called a sperm dumpster, a sperm receptacle, and a bed wench.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

True


Well,kinda, I never chased them. I just made myself available to them

Are all men from the Congo extremely endowed? Because serge ibaka, ness...

Hes from 'the other' Congo I have no intel on #242


If you really wanted a picture all you had to do was ask

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I'm just saying, I distinctively remember my dad telling me at like the age of 6..."Son, I don't know what's in store for you in the future and when you're a grown man you have to make your own decisions, but please don't marry no black woman. No disrespect to your mother...".

I see where you're coming my friend. I've had black women tell me because I look for good communication black women aren't for me. Lol BW tell me that. I just ignore it. I've met plenty of coy soft spoken BW.

I think the idea of black women being ghetto in a bad way is old school. I also think the idea that the black relationship has to be dramatic is old school. Real life ain't Baby Boy.

If you assume someone has a bad attitude they'll pick up on it and you may get what you expected because of your energy.

Finally, other ethnic groups have attitudes too. But its considered a good thing. I've dated Italian and Latina women. Lol breh, attitudes like a motherfukker.

It was tolerable though because they knew when to submit. I do think BW are more defensive than women of other ethnic groups. I think it's because they feel abandoned and attacked. They deal with what BM deal with it. Which is their behavior being associated with negative things due to racism.

 

[the bossman]

I love me a sweet southern Belle just as much as I love brasilian women just as much as I love west/East African women .

I love all shades of chocolate

 

[K.Dot]

I prefer AA women. More swag and better fashion than the others.

 

[BooksnCookies]

My love,

How do you feel about foreign black women being placed above you? I've noticed every type of black woman is beautiful unless she's normal or American.

Sincerely,

- Still Ill FC

I don't feel any way about it, tbh. This is't a reality for me.

 

[MWinn]

I can honestly say that I have never felt inferior to a woman of any other race. I also don't feel offended by black men who simp over non AA women either. Every man is not for every woman; and every woman is not for every man. None the less, dapped you for this post.

 

[BrandonBanks]

i agree that it's wrong to come out publicly and put down black women (examples: comedians like Kevin Hart, Barkley, a lot of these rappers), etc. I've dated black women, latina women and a white chick before and i'd never get on a public platform and elevate them over black women. I mean i'm not famous but even if i were.

But my question is, is discussing black women on a site like this, automatically "bashing"....because it seems like if a dude says anything about black women that isn't praise, he automatically gets called a "black woman hater". Even if he is the type who critiques black men too.

Most black men do date black women, or have tried to at some point at least, so to me it makes sense that black women would be the most discussed on here, whether negatively or postively. That's who we generally interact(ed) with the most.

Some nikkas get called "black woman haters" if they admit that there's def some black men who got ignored or dissed by black women for being "too nice" or "too short" or not wearing Jordans or some other lame reason, then when the dude started making good money and doing well, suddenly droves of black women are checking for him I've seen it happen, even though i'm originally from the hood.

From To To

Why would all those nikkas make that up? Just to lie on black women?

Czar u cool and shyt, but that's not true. On here, and other forums I frequent, the guys who regurgitate white supremacist sounding propaganda about black women typically do not get attacked for it, and also may get daps/cosigns.

They'll maybe get the or or the but the name calling and backlash usually starts when you defend black women, not when you criticize black women. Just look at this thread for example. OP had good intentions, and look what it quickly devolved into.

But yeah...u are wrong on that part breh. Dudes generally don't get attacked on here for saying negative stuff about black women, they may get some smileys and lukewarm/nonchalant responses etc but attacked? Nah.

Cats actually get more backlash/angry responses when they attempt to defend black women than cats do when they bash black women

I started a thread on here trying to get some dudes to understand black women's pov more, and even stated in the post that I know black women arent perfect but dudes got pissed anyway and were going in on me just for starting the thread (even though it's known that I'm not a troll and was not being a shyt starter)

 

[Citi Trends]

i like different and im not gonna apologize for that

 

[BrandonBanks]

Don't be a hater. Lol one thread vs multiple threads. You nikkas really be fishing to derail something based on poor logic and bad math. I assure you you're wrong too. I won't derail my own thread to argue with you. So I'll checkmate you now. Follow me, if you can.

If we add up the total pages of ALL threads about glorifying non AA women the total amount of pages would be more than the one thread appreciating AA you referenced. Look at page one in JBO.

Next time you wander into a thread come with facts and not just hate. I'm showing love fam. Take that hatred elsewhere.

I don't read shyt I don't want to read. And I dunno why you feel the need to be a salty ass bytch. I took no shots at you. Why you taking shots at me? It's cause you're a salty ass bytch. Your mom loves my thread.

Facts. And good thread breh.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

My love,

How do you feel about foreign black women being placed above you? I've noticed every type of black woman is beautiful unless she's normal or American.

It's not fair. I know you've seen what I've seen. "Somali, Ethiopian, HOA, Canadian, afro punk, west indian, vegan, Arab women appreciation thread." Lmao really my nikka, that's ridiculous.

I appreciate the black woman I'm most familiar with. She might wear weave or a natural. She switches it up. She's dark or light, regardless of her tone she's down. She's skinny. She's got a little extra. Lol sometimes she's got a lot of extra. I appreciate you. You don't have to be special or exotic in any shape or form.

You don't have to have exaggerated features. Hell you don't even gotta be physically beautiful. Be spiritual beautiful and respectful of my position.

Keep it wet for me and hold me down. Comb my hair and straighten my tie. Pop it for a real one, one time and we good.


Sincerely,

- Still Ill FC

Ouch @ nobody dapping this

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

I hadn't thought of it like that but you're right. Fair enough.



I'm noticing a pattern. A) I don't disagree with you, please allow me to re-imagine the bolded. Black American women mature in time and their tastes in men changes because they want security and are tired of the game. B) Naw, there's gotta be some truth in it. C)romantic arrested development is what I call it. It affects BM&BW. We remain teenagers romantically longer than we should. I had to mature mentally and emotionally before I snapped out the bad bytch phase. I'm 26. I think I'm where I'm supposed to be romantically which is looking for a partner and not a trophy.

Well, when someone consistently posts negative sweeping statements about BW it's fair to call them a BW hater. Also, I've seen BW get attacked on here for criticizing black men. @WHIPPEDCream is getting roasted at this very moment for that.

She criticized all men, and it got spun into her attacking black men. She got called a sperm dumpster, a sperm receptacle, and a bed wench.

I'm so over y'all talking about race.Race really doesn't matter.

 

[Poitier]

I'm so over y'all talking about race.Race really doesn't matter.

your evolution is complete

 

[Deluuxe]

For some It's alL about what's exotic/foreign to them that turns them on.
Black American men lust after Caribbean women. Black American women list after Caribbean men. Meanwhile Caribbean men lust after black American women.
I should know... I'm one of them Caribbean brehs who s crazy about black American women You like what you like.

So again this is a problem that all black men and women deal with across the world. Why the black American community complain about it far more than anyone is beyond me. Or maybe I hear it more from black Americans because that's who I'm around more often these days.

I wouldn't mind dating an black american woman, but we do not lust after them. Its their men flooding the canadian borders every summer to come to Caribana. The men don't flood american for woman.