I respect Dr. Kunjufu's scholarship, but he isn't addressing the complexity of relationship dynamics.
Brass tax...
People deal with who they want to deal with at the end of the day! There are people who prefer to be single. So, is he or anyone alse gonna wag their fingers @ those people and tell them that they are wrong for wanting to be single?
What about those whose sexual orientation is different? Do they get the finger wagging treatment as well? What about people who have specific preferences? Do they get the finger wagging treatment?
I always say that it takes two to tango! Can't make someone do something that they don't want to do, so why focus on one subset of people and not the rest?
Best thing people should do is do what they wanna do and stop worrying about what other people do, especially people they themselves wouldn't deal with on a personal level.
It's 2022 and the social dynamics is constantly changing..
People need to deal with it and go on about their lives...