Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[PeridotPuss]

You're too old to not understand the laws of attraction. Go read some Abraham Hicks and get out of this victim mentality

and you too old to be tryna control your wife by making her think you're up to shyt.

Don't think since I'm asking for help I'm not going to light the dumb shyt up in here

 

[QuavoFlow]

just finished breakfast and young peridot tryna crash the servers

 

[thirdeye]

Elle I went to therapy, therapist sold me dreams

What kind of dreams? My therapist was a black lady so she didn't sugarcoat shyt for me.

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

Seriously, get the hell of the internet. You're self absorbed. Everything is "me, me, me".

Secondly, go see a psychologist. You got problems this deep and you coming here?

There's no truth, there's no happy ending there's just you. Get your mind right, do you and stop thinking about this magical man.

Be lonely. Truly lonely. bytch you went on a date with a coli nikka Not everyone has to have that fairytale story. Just go to work, have fun with your friends, go to that lonely home, and shut the fukk up. Millions of people do it everyday. Once you can live with yourself, you'll realise there is not much more out there than that.

Lastly, seriously, take time of the forums

 

[VegasCAC]

imma need some time to believe the bold. I'm not there yet...

Well, I can only speak for myself. I've never cheated on someone I was in a relationship with and never would. That's just not the kind of person I am

Maybe you need someone who was raised correctly

 

[iBrowse]

Subs

 

[GoldTeef]

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....

Also because of all of the dudes you've fukked. You could keep that a secret but I dont think things will end well if your boyfriend or husband ends up finding out from someone else.

 

[PeridotPuss]

What kind of dreams? My therapist was a black lady so she didn't sugarcoat shyt for me.

It was a lot of basic self help stuff I had already read online and a lot of what to do but not HOW to do it.

 

[Elle Driver]

Elle I went to therapy, therapist sold me dreams

You need a competent therapist, a black one. There are different forms of therapy based on whatever issues you have, be it trauma, or forms of mental illness. Actually looking at yourself and being honest, doing some real reflection, is a great start.
Everybody needs love.

 

[Still FloW]

let me help you fix your fears

 

[Action Mike]

Damn @PeridotPuss so it's this deep?

Could start from the top, what's your mind set towards males from the jump? I haven't seen bitterness, just being opinionated.

We are all a sum of our experiences, perhaps from today switch up the type of dudes you say yes to.

I'd be the first to admit harshly, from what's been disclosed so far I wouldn't/encourage my brehs to wife you.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Seriously, get the hell of the internet. You're self absorbed. Everything is "me, me, me".

Secondly, go see a psychologist. You got problems this deep and you coming here?

There's no truth, there's no happy ending there's just you. Get your mind right, do you and stop thinking about this magical man.

Be lonely. Truly lonely. bytch you went on a date with a coli nikka Not everyone has to have that fairytale story. Just go to work, have fun with your friends, go to that lonely home, and shut the fukk up. Millions of people do it everyday. Once you can live with yourself, you'll realise there is not much more out there than that.

Lastly, seriously, take time of the forums

This is good advice but I'm PAST that. I've been single for a year, I only recently started coli-in because I was ALREADY spending so much time alone.

I took this time because my LAST relationship ended in an engagement that ended because he cheated. I did what I was supposed to do...was faithful, honest and willing to be the breadwinner.

THAT breakup was a final straw of sorts so I'm not suffering from magical man syndrome I'm suffering from the fukk ITS but everyone is saying at MY AGE if I go bitter now I'll never marry and I'll regret it later

I currently feel like I should probably be single and permanently. ....but that permanenty part is the "damage" I've heard

 

[Still FloW]

You remind me of myself a little while ago. I used to be like that, you might need therapy. Not even trying to be funny, but self perception is important and yours is all fukked up. You need to see a therapist and get to the root of what's causing you to feel this way about yourself. You also have to be honest with yourself, are you comfortable being vulnerable around someone you care for? Because shyt is a gamble regardless, you have to choose whether it's one you see as a viable risk or not. There are plenty good dudes out there, don't let anybody make you feel jaded and justified. Loathing manifests itself into all parts of life. It's dangerous.

Elle I went to therapy, therapist sold me dreams

What kind of dreams? My therapist was a black lady so she didn't sugarcoat shyt for me.

wait. hol up.. ALL you women see therapists... well damn

maybe its just you guys... maybe its just you guys

 

[thirdeye]

It was a lot of basic self help stuff I had already read online and a lot of what to do but not HOW to do it.

Before I started out my therapy, I basically listened to 10 steps to positive thinking like 12 times (https://kat.cr/directional-thinking-10-steps-to-positive-thinking-benjamin-chapin-mantesh-t9756158.html)... you gotta be happy and positive for yourself before you share your energy with someone else.

I suggest you listen to it meanwhile look for a black therapist thaat will actually help you.

 

[DontDoIt]

get off of the internets

theres tons of good guys who don't cheat

they're everywhere

What type of guys do you normally go after?

Maybe you can try switching it up?


not much we can do to help you online

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