Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[42 Monks]

No I did some dirt too and when I speak in men its not just ME it's like friends family and my own shyt...

nikkas do A LOT of foul shyt and women are just expected to aceept it as normal and forgive

IF you really gonna do this, go full confessional and just spill your dirt online to get it off your chest instead of dropping pieces here and there. Package it up, look at it yourself, and drop it. You'll get better answers

(We'll be entertained shout out to @General Mills )

 

[Consigliere]

I was halfway joking about the time machine.

Try being upfront with guys from the jump. Disarm us with honesty... Not too much tho. Keep your numbers/experiences to yourself, but whatever it is you've been through that makes you feel lost, there's a guy that your equal & opposite.

 

[intruder]

last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll.... a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst no booty derailments please

Why do yank chicks refer to themselves as "b!tches"?
You guys are pretty much the only black women i know that do this among black american, African, and Caribbean diaspora.

 

[PeridotPuss]

I thought my self worth was good tho can you have low self esteem and not know it? I feel good about me. ...I'm just trying to undo some mental junk from bad choices


@#SOG_soldier seriously Im trying to discuss this shyt please not today. Be nice.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

No I did some dirt too and when I speak in men its not just ME it's like friends family and my own shyt...

nikkas do A LOT of foul shyt and women are just expected to aceept it as normal and forgive

Because you are not equal. :bhop12:stop putting yourself on the level of a man and you won't constantly get hurt. :huhnikka119:

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Ain't shyt people come from all walks of life, so trying to find one specific "type" of man isn't gonna do much. Best bet is to find someone who isn't afraid to be honest with you(and anybody else), someone with a strong sense of morality, and someone who is self aware. TBH you might not be putting enough importance on the right type of traits, and that might be the thing that's fukking you over. Carrying all that baggage you have certainly isn't helping either. I can understand being cynical to an extent, but if you're willing to commit to someone then you better drop that shyt, or your relationship is bushes status from jump.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I thought my self worth was good tho can you have low self esteem and not know it? I feel good about me. ...I'm just trying to undo some mental junk from bad choices


@#SOG_soldier seriously Im trying to discuss this shyt please not today. Be nice.

Nothing to discuss either lie about your past or face the fact that no nikka on his right mind will ever want you.

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[sfgiants]

@periodpuss how big are your feet

 

[DrX]

how about you stop posting?

what is your advice bro...?.....im trying to actually help her

yo P u could date @VegasCAC

hes beta, u can dress him, give him orders, hell do everything u say....he likes for a woman to dominate him

 

[|r|e|a|d|]

My 2 cents; In all things know yoself

If you a hoe and know you a hoe then by all means be a hoe, take it in all 3 holes with 3 dudes wash up and call another 3 do you
But stop lying to yoself, if you know you not relationship worthy then stop trying to be in a relationship until you are ready to be in one. No dude is gonna swing thru in a Range and change you miraculously into this perfect person.
Thats y u jaded, you keep saying 1 thing but living another
You continue on this path its gonna end up 1 of 2 ways
A)you gonna end up old and bitter or
II)you gonna hook yo damaged azz unto some other damaged cat yall gonna have a kid, yall gonna be peace until them old urges pop back up which gonna lead to yall splitting up and you going to be giving yo daughter the same bs advice yo momma gave you. 25 years from now yo damaged azz daughter gonna be on the 2040 version of the coli talkin that same mess bout how my son blew her back out in the basement of wha ever ramshackle place yall living in and wont call her back.


Think of the kids man

 

[PeridotPuss]

@periodpuss how big are your feet

Size 7

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

 

[PeridotPuss]

My 2 cents; In all things know yoself

If you a hoe and know you a hoe then by all means be a hoe, take it in all 3 holes with 3 dudes wash up and call another 3 do you
But stop lying to yoself, if you know you not relationship worthy then stop trying to be in a relationship until you are ready to be in one. No dude is gonna swing thru in a Range and change you miraculously into this perfect person.
Thats y u jaded, you keep saying 1 thing but living another
You continue on this path its gonna end up 1 of 2 ways
A)you gonna end up old and bitter or
II)you gonna hook yo damaged azz unto some other damaged cat yall gonna have a kid, yall gonna be peace until them old urges pop back up which gonna lead to yall splitting up and you going to be giving yo daughter the same bs advice yo momma gave you. 25 years from now yo damaged azz daughter gonna be on the 2040 version of the coli talkin that same mess bout how my son blew her back out in the basement of wha ever ramshackle place yall living in and wont call her back.


Think of the kids man

 

[Raava]

For real, like people make mistakes we all have dirt and been done dirty but you have to let it go. You also have to go for what you want and just chill until you get it.

Your last relationship, your fiancé how much did you sacrifice for him? Even before he cheated was he really worth it

Nothing wrong with dating for fun. But you also have to be mentally ready for what you want. So yea talk to somebody if the therapist is not a good fit find a new one.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

To keep it a hunnid,,, good chicks that are worthy of being mates have no issues finding good dudes.....

What's your definition of good? Do you really even want a "good" dude who is about that "good" life......?

Just be serious with yourself when you answer these questions......