last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll....
a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....
So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.
Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst
She's a woman, let alone a light skinned woman. She believes she's entitled to any delusions that have manifested in her head.Seriously, get the hell of the internet. You're self absorbed. Everything is "me, me, me".
Secondly, go see a psychologist. You got problems this deep and you coming here?
There's no truth, there's no happy ending there's just you. Get your mind right, do you and stop thinking about this magical man.
Be lonely. Truly lonely. bytch you went on a date with a coli nikkaNot everyone has to have that fairytale story. Just go to work, have fun with your friends, go to that lonely home, and shut the fukk up. Millions of people do it everyday. Once you can live with yourself, you'll realise there is not much more out there than that.
Lastly, seriously, take time of the forums
imma need some time to believe the bold. I'm not there yet...
on me but i've never cheated on anyone in my entire life and I never will. And i'm far from alone in that category. You have to push the importance of honesty to the point where people realize that lying to you is a relationship death sentence. Don't settle for those that aren't willing to get with that.
I read the other thread... it was a trainwreck to be honest fam.
Before I go in and give you my take on this... how willing are you to accept that your view on men could possible be at the heart of the issue?
No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was sayin
I'm like. ...I amand i still think nikkas not shyt....now what? ???
Seriously, get the hell of the internet. You're self absorbed. Everything is "me, me, me".
Secondly, go see a psychologist. You got problems this deep and you coming here?
There's no truth, there's no happy ending there's just you. Get your mind right, do you and stop thinking about this magical man.
Be lonely. Truly lonely. bytch you went on a date with a coli nikka
Lastly, seriously, take time of the forums
Oh...so that's what you think?
this thread my effort to change that. ....but yea
Ain't no way a legit female, much less a fine one, would be that damn open on here of all places.
I'm ready to accept the truth
those aren't square those nikkas are just avg, and squares =! good guys too. you got the game all the way fukke upSmart, kinda corny kinda cool,confident, good jobs, education, comes two parent home,not atheist or agnostic. ...you know "good guys" or are those not "good guys" either ??
I don't think you're "beyond salvation" or anything. Hell you're my age, you still have time. But just judging by the past thread (haven't read this one), do you actually want to change your view towards men? Do you actually want something serious with a guy? I mean.. I'm just not convinced you are the type of person who should get in a serious relationship.
No shade or anything, I don't think its for everyone. But before you look for a change, you have to decide whether or not you want it?
Do you see yourself in a long term committed, vulnerable, all defenses down, no walls up, relationship with a man?
