Sierra Mist
Banned
Well then I just don't know. It's scary to me.
nikka slapped the black off of her


I've been everywhere and I've honestly NEVER seen women of other races jump in their men's faces like that. The most you'd get would be snappy comments, but actually STEPPING in the dudes face saying "hit me" repeatedly? I've never seen it anywhere else. I'm not even saying all or even most black girls do that, but what I am saying is I've never seen any other group of women do that. Remember the McDonald's incident? Yeah she got fukked up. Remember the black girl who tried to get in the police officers face in Oakland and got knocked the fukk out?
This is what happens when you live in a pseudo-matriarchy. You think you can have the power of men, all the while maintaining the privileges that patriarchal women have. Not only that but black women are the only group of women who declare how independent they are from their men. When you don't depend on someone to survive, chances are you will lose respect for him. When you do respect someone, it's usually out of fear. These women truly think they don't need men, so they have no fear because they have no respect.
And that's not even bashing. These are cultural behaviors I'm just pointing out. I don't see AFRICAN women behaving that way either so it's definitely a cultural behavior rather than a racial one.

I can't co-sign that part.
To me, respecting someone shouldn't be because you're scared of that person but, because you appreciate (and love) that person for who they are and how they carry themselves and treat others.
It should go both ways for both genders.
Getting respect out of someone by the way of fear is some dictator mess.
Far as African women go, a lot of them still live in cultures that view being a woman period means being deserving of abuse and rape. Cultures that live off of "respect out of fear" rhetoric.




*money dances thru thread*
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*money dances thru thread*
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*money dances thru thread*
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good shyt...the problem with a lot of our sistas (and im speaking from experience...i have 2 younger ones, and am married to one) is that there are no fathers around. guaranteed that chick doesnt have a in-house father...probably no grandfather neither...
so of course she doesnt respect men...shes never had the oppurtunity or reason to...![]()
