Approaching a girl cold, and trying to get at a chick aint just social basics, and having a "normal conversation". Its a lil more complex then that, lol. She knows you're not talking to her because you want a study buddy. The most important quality to being "a ladies man" is maintaining the ability to handle rejection, because its going to happen to you a lot no matter who you are. A lot of people cant do that. That is if you're trying to game at quality chicks. Scooping the drunk broad at the club that looks like Professor Klump at the end of the night is a lil less complex.
Anyway, you right about tho, the video is wack. He spend all this time emasculating himself only to get a kiss on the cheek at the end, where he forced her by hand to kiss her on the lips. Whats the point...just annoy her until you wear her down, and shes exhausted, so she puts up with you for a lil bit longer before she usain bolts it away from you?