How do you think some black people pick up these beliefs in the first place? And what can we do to stop that from happening in the first place?
My opinion is this is picked up in college because they have a lot of women's studies classes which have an inherent white woman bias.
I don't think getting rid of feminist classes in liberal arts colleges is feasible, but maybe we should push schools towards having more black women's studies classes, that are more aligned with our culture.
We would need more black teachers or black people in control of curriculum ( and black schools). We need black women with no skin in the white supremacy game to run these classes ect.
I also think we need black masculine studies courses to coincide with these. Both of us go through things as a result of WS and shyt just life. We benefit from understanding both sides.
All of these issues seem to stem from imbalance, misogyny, misandry. All of it.
I think people develop these thoughts through searching for it. I mean searching for more people who have the same experience and agree with someone else being The issue. The issue is people are looking for spaces that agree with the issues they themselves have. Look at incels. They are finding places that support this solipsism they have, their view is right ect. It would seem many of these black women who claim to be feminists in the modern era are just mad at black men they themselves have known, who may have been pieces of shyt, but clearly aren't all black men.
I think black women need to get together and say, ok....this is what who we are, this is what effects us. How much of this comes from place 1, place 2, place 3 ect.
I think black men need to so the same. And then both need to come to a agreement that, they can not only coexist (I don't mean in the sense of destroying each other) But in the sense that they can both take issue with each other and also help each other with solutions. This takes terrible amounts of self reflection and accountability.
Big problem is that White Supremacy as an ideology and a physical thing is very far reaching, it's like the Thing (Great movie if you have never seen it.) You don't know who is infected with it and to what degree. Hence why I mentioned a need for black psychologists in another thread. The whole of black progress, co-existence and liberation will start in the mind.
That being said I think we need to stop involving other people in our business. Do we have issue to hash out? Yes but to think other groups will help us figure it out, they can't and won't. Nor do they have any vested interest in doing so. That's one.
Two. Like
@Booksnrain said, there are folks in our community who are mad at each other and will use platforms created by whites to push their issue and be proven right. In this case that maybe thier crush didn't ask them to prom, or they got rejected for a date... they were called black and ugly or not black enough or what ever. Now we know where this comes from and what we need to know is how to deal with it. Again I think mental health comes into play. These people are not exorcising their past experiences and coming to terms with it.
Three we look at our selves and apologize to each other for the shyt we did, failed to do and were complicit in. We need forgiveness among black men and women. We admit our wrong doings, apologize accept and move past it as best we can.
I know this is long winded and not as concise as you may have wanted but this is my thought on the matter. It's a long road.
