Black men are conditioned to accept scrap respect. Father goes off on why he won't speak to his daughter again.

[Problematic Pat]

Damn he was spitting. A lot of Umarsexuals on here and in the real world are guilty of protecting the matriarchy at all costs even when they get out right disrespected. Perfect example is politics. Everyone can talk crazy to you and you'll still fall in line. Cowards are scared to check Obama on his constant disrespect towards us and will sit there and take the blame for a candidate losing because they voted 85% for them instead of 120% (because 100% wouldn't be good enough in their eyes ). But no smoke for Latinos, Arabs, Asians and definitely not white women when they voting way less than 50%. You nikkaz need back bones. Black woman goes viral every single week thirsting over other races of men and it's radio silence from the usual suspects or they blaming Russian bots, A.I, or a phantom white man behind the profile. But let a brotha post a picture with a non Black woman and it's Umarsexuals all over the comment sections dunking in him with the same hoes that were just talking crazy about all Black men.
These bytches will call themselves white man's whore publicly but nikkaz is scared to say they love light skin or mixed women. Your own women be doing positive PR for groups of men who pay them dust in real life but only thing they got to say about you are negative things instead of owning up to their poor mate selecting. Pathetic.

 

[KingFreeman]

I definitely get the general respect topic but this MF not telling the full story or why those attitudes develop. It sounded like he was a provider with most likely simp tendencies who let his wife, daughter and mother get too comfortable.

If he's paying mom's rent and pops is still around, she's probably an unstable leech and dude no doubt married a woman who's the same. The fukk I look like providing 100% of the bills and every woman in my life is disrespecting me? That's a man issue.

 

[Savvir]

That nikka got something wrong with him



Weird nikka to be quoting

 

[UpAndComing]

10000% agree

But be careful OP. You're a brave one exposing the truth. But the Black community doesn't take too kindly to Black Men airing out grievances if it happens to be a critique of Black Women. We live in a matriarchy authorized by the Government

They will start to sidestep the truth by
- Playing Semantics
- Playing the whataboutism game
- Attacking the messenger of the video
- Attacking the person who posts the video
- Attacking anyone who agrees with the video

Minimizing and gas lighting the struggles of the Black Man is extremely normalized by Non-Black and Black people. Stay strong OP

 

[3rdWorld]

Respect and decorum is very important to Black men, I learned this from observing my dad and watching how I speak and act around him. youll get dealt with promptly for talking or doing whatever.
Ive seen breh's managing stores get mad because a cac or someone just walked up and started speaking to them without first greeting the breh.

 

[UpNext]

Yeah a lot of these dudes really did let females punk them outta acknowledging light brights are the GOAT. shyt's disgusting. "Proximity to whiteness" the birdest of babbles. I'd just get a white bytch if that mattered foh goofy.

 

[PatCake]

Most natural leaders I have learned form are usually the least disagreeable people.

Staying calm and modulating your voice when you're making a point gets the person to focus on what you have to say, not how you will say it or your temper. When the people you interact with respect your words and opinion, they value that much more than the fear of your reaction and emotional/angry outburst.

I'm not saying this brother is wrong or anything, but it's important not to act like an emotional woman around your grown daughter. She should fear your disapproval and disappointment more than your harshness. That is the right way to father a duaghter. Her father should be the most logical and reasonable person she knows or top 3.

 

[BaggerofTea]

I bet you dollars to donuts there is more to the story.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Definitely more to that story.

See how he equates his value to money. Said nothing about his own character outside of money. That's very telling.

Anyways, i feel like everyone always wants to have a victim's story and make it bigger than it is.

Humans are horrible disrespectful creatures. Period.

You have earn the respect of people. That's how it is for every human being on this planet. It is what it is. People respect people who are respectable and who have boundaries.

Most people will have to work or fight for respect.

 

[Uachet]

I just looked at one of his videos. He is the wrong person to hitch this wagon to. There is something off about him. So while the complaint has some validity for some Black men, this black man in the video gives me the impression that he contributed to why he experienced a lack of respect.

 

[Ahadi]

 

[O.T.I.S.]

He’s not wrong, but I’m sure there is more to this.

But at the same time, his situation is not unique to me. Kinda common with a lot of military cats… a lot start out with American black women. They usually just get divorced or something. Not always, and not just BM, just seen it a lot when it came to the BM.

One reason I did not want to start a marriage while I was in really. I saw too much and even before that, I saw a lot.

If the respect is not there you will be miserable I imagine. There’s more to his story, sure, but he’s not lying

 

[tay1]

Clown behavior.

Old ass nikka coming to social media to air out his families problems. This red pill shyt got nikkas acting weird.

 

[folasade]

I need to hear from the mother and daughter because I don't believe he's telling the complete truth.

 

[Richard Glidewell]

The fukk is scrap respect?! It either is or it isn't. That would be the a real source of the problem. Making side terms for some shyt that dont exist