O.T.I.S.
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I’m assuming he means the bare minimum of respect.
Meaning.. I guess when only they needed shyt
Black men are conditioned to accept scrap respect. Father goes off on why he won't speak to his daughter again.
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Meaning.. I guess when only they needed shyt
Totally agree.
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Listen, I have discussed the amazing men in my family and how much we respect and appreciate them.
And yes, respect is a big thing.
But this dude right here isn’t sharing the whole story. Dude is definitely off.
I know this must be going viral because this exact clip popped up on YT and I don’t watch nothing like this. I be watching crypto stuff night and day
Problematic Pat
Superstar
Scrap respect is exactly what it means. Your opinion doesn't matter. Expected to take the blame for others mistakes. Don't be too successful because they'll resent you for it later on (Obama, Steph Curry, Will Smith etc).
For example I'll bring it back to Obama's goofy ass. Black women today have rewrote the narrative that it was because of Michelle that Black women supported him when everyone who was over 18 in 2007 remember that it was him being called a "boy who would be fetching our bags" by Bill Clinton. It was the catalyst for him gaining Black women voters over how controversial that statement was .Black men were a lock since primaries started.
He needed a Black woman to validate him but Kamala on the flip side you were called all sorts of names on national media and assumed BM wouldn't support her over who she's married to rather than questions about her policies. And all this was said before anyone actually spoke to any BM. Even the Umarsexuals were brought out as attack dogs to "check us". She didn't need a Black man to validate her. It was just Black girl magic bullshyt.
Brick ladys story was immediately believed as fact and no one questioned it in mass. Now this brotha ,right on que ,everyone needs to hear from the ex-wife, daughter, his commanding officers, disciplinary files, a lie detector test, did his ex wife have 4c hair and all other bullshyt just to circle back and still blame him.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Breh doesn’t even know the difference between “excepting” and “accepting”. Come on man. 
feelosofer
#ninergang
Im sorry. I am around this brother's age range and I can tell he isn't isn't telling the whole story. He is carrying on like he is the victim and did nothing wrong. Of course Black men deserve full respect like any other man if he is taking care of his business.
MoveForward
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He’s telling the truth and I don’t believe there is more to the story, black men just get held to an impossible standard.
Piff Perkins
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He told us nothing about himself as a father, husband, or son. Talking about how stereotypes harm black men and then standing ten does down on one of the biggest - that we view financial status as the dominant form of self worth or character. I don't care how many cars you have. Your 11 year old daughter didn't "respect" you so you abandoned her? That's insane behavior. An 11 year old child needs correction and discipline. That's one of the biggest "a$$hole" ages for kids lol. Take black men out the picture...are we really going to co-sign anyone leaving their 11yo kid for being an a$$hole? And now your child is an adult and you still won't talk to her? Nope I'm not co-signing this.
I know people who pay a family member's rent and use that to lord over them. That doesn't impress me. He didn't say a damn thing that suggests he's a good guy.
I know people who pay a family member's rent and use that to lord over them. That doesn't impress me. He didn't say a damn thing that suggests he's a good guy.
feelosofer
#ninergang
I cannot imagine not talking to my daughter for a day much less years.
I don't know how to enforce it but it should be illegal to brainwash your child.
It happens in divorces and split ups. One parent may do whatever it is to turn the child against the other. Whether its showering with gifts, telling them shyt and lies, and straight manipulation.
I think I told this before. My coworker would have visitation from noon to 3. So at noon she'd leave the house to drop off their child. Sometimes that meant dropping off the kid at 12:40 due to driving. Or if mom decided well the kid needs clothes, or food --- needs to eat before she goes with dad...she'd take the kid to eat lunch, on dads time them drop her off with dad. And to kick it off...dad had to drive to drop the kid off and she wanted the kid back at 3. Not 3:02 not 3:13.
And what would she do? Call 911.
So she'd drop the kid off at 1:30 during a scheduled visit of noon to 3. Then call 911. She'd call the kid randomly during the visit and the kid would answer because they're doing stuff. Then she'd call my coworker and he wouldn't answer. So then she"d call 911.
The first time she did this. She'd dropped the kid off an hour late, then tried called them like 30 minutes later, then she calls 911 hysterical saying "I think my ex killed our kid and killed himself!" And shes speeding to the house while on the phone with 911. Like 8 cops are race to the house.....they walked to the park down the street and were eating ice cream bars.
Finally he dragged her ass to court got supervised visitation (he requested it) her behavior didnt stop. Still dropped the kid off late, still called during their time...even called 911 while he was having supervised visitation with a cpa rep with them....
(They're white btw)
And that's the external manipulation, we aren't going to address the "oh, mon/dad lies to you/us" "they don't really love you/us". "There's a lot you (child) don't know but you will when you're older"
shyt, I just watched a investigation Discovery show where a mom convinced her son to shoot and kill his dad with a shotgun when he was like 7.
Mom doesn't like you
Wife doesn't like you
Daughter doesn't like you
Idk breh you might just be not shyt
Exactly.