The gaslighting in this thread

So black men. Who lived in hundreds of years of social conditioning along side black women, who also spent decades chasing any exotical they could find, and publically and loudly announcing how they like lite skin/long hair, talm bout chicks jumping in pools and coming out different, white chicks evolving. Nearly 40+ years of celebrities worshiped like GODS influencing blacks, seeing countless images of good things associated with whites and bad associated with black—-but none of that had any impact?
Now all of a sudden, all the brehs love 4c, kinky, Afro hair?!
And black women just lying about their whole collective experience. Like School Daze didn’t exist. Like Martin wasn’t clowning Pam for beady beads. But no. On the Coli, everybody making six figures. Everybody six ft tall. Everybody is a perfect catch and skin tones, hair texture and facial features that approximate white beauty standards don’t have an impact in our community.
Cool story bro. I remember black dudes circa early 2000s CLOWNING black chicks for even THINKING about going natural. Hell that’s part of what spawned the era of Shea butter Twitter. Black chicks literally had to work to enact legislation to protect themselves from discrimination in the workplace over their damn hair. Many black men don’t like or even know anything about natural black hair, ESPECIALLY on women. Black women creating their own natural hair movement to create a safe space and culture for them to wear their hair is what popularized natural hair culturally.
But only on the Coli. Just deny, deny, deny and blame bw.
On the other hand, equally embarrassing as some blk dudes gaslighting is black c00n females letting whites pet their hair for validation. Non-blk dudes asking to “touch your hair” is just as bad as Black dudes not liking “peppa-headed chicks”. It’s fetishization and dehumanizing no matter how you cut it. White b*stards cannot save any damn body b/c they started this shyt in the first place.

Luckily between weird, racists colonizers and self-hating blacks, there are many who genuinely like Afro-textured hair. And if they don’t, Fukk em. But I’m not gon sit here and pretend that certain people in our communities eyes don’t light up more when they see a bone straight blow out or some biracial curls over 4c textured hair. And I’m not even blaming black men or black women for being impacted by white supremacy. But we can’t work through shyt when we deny anything that makes us uncomfortable.
Theres just something about you.