I mean, it ain’t the 90’s or early 2000’s no more fellas… the days of black women not looking twice at non black men are over…. Social media and black men dating outside their race so frequently/putting lightskinned chicks on a pedestal did that.
Yes you could make the argument that most black women are with black men and vice versa BUT the numbers are changing every year… if you know, you know…
I’ve met suburban black women, single mothers, Hood chicks, professional black women, even black women who are fake pro black admit to either being with a white man before, or currently lusting off one or being slightly interested in one…. But nikkas would only know that if you’re actually OUTSIDE and have dated around in different circles and are well seasoned.
A lot of white men are still intimidated by black women but I’ve heard black woman literally say that white men are scared to approach them… and when they say it, it’s always with a wishful tone. Almost as if they wouldn’t mind if white men approached them more.
Now obviously, if I come across a chick like this, I undoubtably lose interest and tend to move onto the next broad…. But it doesn’t negate the fact that there are many black women who feel like this.
And the fact that many black people lack self esteem, a lot of black women fall for this false fantasy that white men are better/have more to offer than black men. You see that shyt everyday.
Some of y’all underestimate just how many black women have had wenching episodes… the thing is, it is usually just sex/casual dating. It rarely gets to be a relationship simply because of cultural differences and I think that’s what some of y’all might be missing… a lot of the white guys famikies tend to be racist and many white guys just see black women as sex objects…. but if cultural/societal differences weren’t an issue, trust me, you would see more black women in relationships with white men.