Black Men Confessions

[lightbearerchef]

I aint gone lie, im lightskin & outta all tha females i smashed, nicca only 2 was lightskin. It dont make me no difference, & idk how it is for other lightskin niccas, but 2 me it seem like tha majority of them hos dont give a nicca a chance unless darkskin, or got money. I dont pay lightskin hos no attention.

 

[TheArchitect]

no one has to be hit
it's just a test. being held against the wall and a simple "you need to stop talking now. go sit down" is all thats needed
i know it's dysfunctional but something makes me do it

Luckily I'm not the type to get too loud....I seem to have a certain "effect". I don't know if it's my eyes or face, or perhaps even the vibe I give off. But, keep fukking with me, I'll turn around like...

bytch, you got one more time...................................

 

[Gold]

Confession: I tried to date women I was unattracted to just to prove to myself I wasn't shallow.



Lesson learned: I like what I like, and there is no reason to be ashamed in that

 

[lightbearerchef]

Ive found plenty of women in that age range without kids. Problem? They were unattractive or taken. Time and place is so fukking crucial if you are not in a college setting. Ive been putting out feelers and of the last 4 women i mentally toyed with stepping to, i find out 3 have kids. It really feels like some "blink and you miss it" shyt at this point. For not hoeing around, my reward is a glut of women my age and younger with baggage. When i was younger, it was mostly emotional. Now they have kids too

I shoulda fukked around immediately after highschool when i had a chance.

Mayne a nicca aint tryna date no female wit a kid anymore, i did that multiple times to no avail

 

[lightbearerchef]

While I definitely feel what they are saying but these days I find myself having a "survival of the fittest" philosophy more and more. I know a lot of successful black men from my fathers generation - doctors, lawyers, engineers, business owners etc - and the one constant between all of them is that they don't waste time complaining.

Through 24 years of life I can only recall one experience where any of them complained. And these days, that's a philosophy that I'm adding on to my own life. One of the best things a man can do for his life is to adopt the mindset of Bruce Lee and pray "Not for an easy life but for the strength to endure a hard one."

If this thread wasnt made i woulda never spoke my thoughts. It jus make me not give a fuc when it come 2 women. But im like that wit ppl in general.

 

[lightbearerchef]

Man fuc this thread, i feel like a bytch for voicin my opinion now

 

[Reginald Noble]

BW's reply to most of these dudes is:

"Man up and treat me like the Queen that I am, stop complaining"

 

[At30wecashout]

Mayne a nicca aint tryna date no female wit a kid anymore, i did that multiple times to no avail

Yup. And whats fukked, there are baaaaaaaaad women out here with kids, and you look at em like "yea, i see why he knocked her up". Personalities on point, good laughs and good times....but with kids their resposibilities are to family first, which means I could get lost in that shuffle. What i dont understand is men fukking around with single mothers knowing that they are going to keep it short. When i crush on a woman, I crush hard, and last thing I need is for my first real relationship to be tied to a woman who failed one or more already (hence the kid).
Its like i literally am going to have to skip all the "young love" shyt and move straight to drama. fukked up that im nearly 30 and only got to know the heartache half. It really seems easier to stay alone, and 99% of the time i am glad. That other 1% though doesn't know what it is like to have someone consider you an important part of their life. Family dont count

 

[Imlinkin]

i told yall alot of black men are depressed in the real world....alot of u dudes in major cities dont understand the hell we face in other areas....like in Buffalo....nikkas dont have nothing, if u want to make it out u have to really be sharp to avoid A. racist cacs. B. hating ass nikkas C. loneilness


but its like that in places other than houston, nyc, atl, la, DC....because i know those r the only 5 cities the coli live

First off...

welcome back

2Ndly how do you create a new post? Im new here, dont see thr option

3rd

Dudes need to stop expecting a fairytale life and it wont seem so bad



YES life and this world are thoroughly fvcked up

When you accept the obstacles coming at u like MJ scoping out defenders you can ball tf out!
Solve. Solve Solve. I call it stayin in solution mode 24-7, juke left, baby mamma drama? Crossover. Broke? Eurostep...but dont focus on the problems(defenders) like dayum i wanna score but all these 6 11" nikkas is blockin the rik with their arms up



Its a game my brehther they sposed to be there

 

[Geek Nasty]

Not feeling that website. Next I guess we need a place to stand around and hug each other for strength.

I don't want no affirmation, all's I want's an ejaculation.

 

[How Sway?]

Word. The most feminine white boys at my school, thin, long hair, lacrosse playing types were smashing more black women then we were in our door freshman year, and they could be justin beiber sweet, long as they were white

damn its like that outchea? you must be in the west coast

 

[Gold]

I don't want no affirmation, all's I want's an ejaculation.

Sounds like a confession Go ahead, let it out.
























Double entendre... don't ask me how

Spoiler

 

[Imlinkin]

damn its like that outchea? you must be in the west coast

Midwest. I went to SIU

 

[semtex]

Those bullshyt ass memes talking about a "real man" would step up to the plate and take care of another man's seeds really annoy the hell out of me. If you wanna go do that then more power to you. I guess the rest of us who managed to remain childless until we meet the right woman to create our OWN children with and get our shyt together aren't "real men". I can live with that, lol.

Lol if they even knew what a "real man" was then maybe they wouldn't be in that situation to begin with dumb hoes

 

[audemarzz]

Word. The most feminine white boys at my school, thin, long hair, lacrosse playing types were smashing more black women then we were in our door freshman year, and they could be justin beiber sweet, long as they were white

Same at my uni, Weird white boys smashing down the finest black chicks, they pretty much had a lock on the natural black girls. Had one bytch say in class "black men can't handle strong black women" Stupid stupid stupid stupid. I'm also in the midwest