Black Men Confessions

[Reginald Noble]

I want be savage like a muthafukka but i care too damn much

Your nickname Gambino, research the Gambino family nikka. They ain't give a fukk even about they own blood, just money.

even the so called nerdy/boring chicks want the same dudes these instagram hoes want

Bu-bu-but you are just picking the wrong Women, NOT ALL

When I hit on dark skin women, I get rejected more than I do light skin women so it doesn't appear that dark skin women like dark skin. What women say and do are often two different things. Attraction is not necessarily desire either. Dark skin women might be attracted to dark skin men but ultimately don't desire them as dark skin men are typically lower class, most stereotyped, etc. Dark skin women might be more willing to give a chance to a light skin man. The truth is that light skin men don't prefer dark skin women; dark skin women are just easier for them.

Back in the 80's this is how it was. I see things have reverted back to how things were. This is a slave master induced mentality we have yet to get over, the colorism.

confession:

i wish black men were'nt hinged on a stereotype that not coming from struggle makes you less than ''black'', i came from struggle but never looked down on any of my black friends who didnt..

i hate how in school, i was looked at as ''soft'' cause my dad worked his ass off to get us out of that struggle and my life was comfortable at that time.

it makes me sad when people think im weird as a black man because i love anime and art and poetry but not the typical sorts guy, i get most respect from so called ''real nikkas'' when i work out and im in the gym..

im more than a stereotype, my minds tooo beautiful to be locked down in a box... *goes back to writing haikus*

nikkas was mad because I wasn't no token boy but I separated myself from the Black herd mentality. My group of friends was the United Nations meanwhile they confining themselves to "da hood" I'm like why the fukk you going to this mixed High School for if you not gonna socialize with other cultures which if you want to lead a successful life in NYC you will have to do on the job ANYWAYS

I confess I'm losing hope for black people

My hope been gone nikka.

i was talking to 3 of my male cousins, black men are really depressed out here. i was kind of shocked. im going to try and be nicer and less judgemental in the future

dont encourage tlr bedwench obsessiom please

If I had to live in D.C. I would think about putting a .50 cal to my dome as well. One of the most depressing cities in the world for a Brother to live in.

...and these girls are ALL dime pieces (pics for proof) I don't hold a candle to them... with degrees and beside the other two NO kids.

At the end of the day it's all about the ATTITUDE.
I wouldn't give a fukk how your cousins look if they on that sassy shyt - .

A lot of Black Women think Brothers are not attracted to them physically and that's why they don't approach, they don't understand how a Man's mind operates. The wrong attitude can make a Man dikk go limp instantly. This is why a lot of healthy young Men get ED these days. If a Woman wears a certain type of make-up I am not interested. Because I have learned to observe that as a key indicator whether she will have an attitude problem or not. This is something you may want to keep in mind in the future.

Make-up at the end of the day is for Women (along with 90% of Women's fashion both the clothing and accessories) but it is the primary thing which Men use to evaluate prospective targets. IF you are not getting the type of Men you desire you need to test and experiment what kind of clothes and make-up you are wearing. A little fat here and there can be lost, Breasts can be augmented as well as Ass, but attitude problems usually are not fixable so most high caliber Brothers won't touch you if you are wearing indicators of potential sassyness above the age of 21 or so - Or show body language that you are on that

 

[Still FloW]

Anime is wack. If you truly appreciated the form of art you would see the effrontery most anime commits.

but I suppose you could like different types of anime/several aspects of Japanese culture as well. What are your preferred types?

i like anime, manga, comics (dc & marvel), basically the popular mangas and the obscure ones with more depth... just in love with the whole traditional feel

 

[JMill782]

if you a young dude and really want a single Black woman from ages 18-21 maybe even 23 without kids, then you go to a HBCU

peep some of the Clark Atlanta and Spelman shorties






now peep the Hampton shorties

 

[Still FloW]

this is sig worthy.. i was always looked at as a weirdo when i got into metal music. and old movies. i was always seen as a weirdo because i was just awkward with talking to people. i was looked at as soft cause i wasnt acting hard all the time. i was mellow.

exactly.. im always mellow and i see nothing wrong with it, nikkas out here tensed up 24/7 mean muggin everyone who walks past em like bruh why

 

[Elle Driver]

I'm lightskin and I can definitely attest that there's colorism issues that I witnessed first hand, both through my own experiences and through some of my close friends who were significantly darker than I.
Any woman pretending otherwise doesn't really care about the issue as much as she does pretending she's the only victim of it.
It goes both ways and guys shouldn't allow anyone to shame or berate them out of calling attention to that fact.

I actually agree with this. I used to witness it with my brothers, they had the light skin, light eyes combo and chicks would try to befriend me just to get to them.

 

[Lana del Rey]

if you a young dude and really want a single Black woman from ages 18-21 maybe even 23 without kids, then you go to a HBCU

peep some of the Clark Atlanta and Spelman shorties






now peep the Hampton shorties

I should have went to spelman

Or to a HBCU

 

[miranda]

If I had to live in D.C. I would think about putting a .50 cal to my dome as well. One of the most depressing cities in the world for a Brother to live in.



At the end of the day it's all about the ATTITUDE.
I wouldn't give a fukk how your cousins look if they on that sassy shyt - .

A lot of Black Women think Brothers are not attracted to them physically and that's why they don't approach, they don't understand how a Man's mind operates. The wrong attitude can make a Man dikk go limp instantly. This is why a lot of healthy young Men get ED these days. If a Woman wears a certain type of make-up I am not interested. Because I have learned to observe that as a key indicator whether she will have an attitude problem or not. This is something you may want to keep in mind in the future.

Make-up at the end of the day is for Women (along with 90% of Women's fashion both the clothing and accessories) but it is the primary thing which Men use to evaluate prospective targets. IF you are not getting the type of Men you desire you need to test and experiment what kind of clothes and make-up you are wearing. A little fat here and there can be lost, Breasts can be augmented as well as Ass, but attitude problems usually are not fixable so most high caliber Brothers won't touch you if you are wearing indicators of potential sassyness above the age of 21 or so - Or show body language that you are on that

they live in san francisco and las vegas, not dc. whats wrong with dc, i thought it was one of the "meccas"?

explain your makeup theory please. i dont wear it daily, but i want to start. post a pic of "attitude problem" makeup please

 

[Still FloW]

This I have a problem. I got NOTHING but chicks in my family....Well...I have 7 cousins..all female....and age 20-30...only 2 of them had kids, one was divorced and the other LEFT her fiancee....and these girls are ALL dime pieces (pics for proof) I don't hold a candle to them... with degrees and beside the other two NO kids. But they babysit a lot for the ones who do have kids, people ALWAYS stop them saying...your son is so cute, and they just say thank you and keep it moving. So maybe not EVERY Black women you see with a kid is a mother...just saying.

PM for research purposes

 

[Reginald Noble]

whats wrong with dc, i thought it was one of the "meccas"?

explain your makeup theory please. i dont wear it daily, but i want to start. post a pic of "attitude problem" makeup please

On D.C. - Read Bobby Cenoura's "Male Angst: I always get those chicks" it is free if you are an Amazon Prime member. Best summation of the average Black Man's options for Women in that area.

On make-up:

Would approach:

Would not approach:

Would approach:

Would not approach:

In general I do not like flashy or bold colors and prefer natural hues on a Woman.

Hair that is too flamboyant along with whatever the hell else is going on here makes her actually look masculine and has the reverse effect:

And then there was the infamous (I won't use the worst pic):

Women are not supposed to genetically have strong defined features in their face. A Man's testosterone is what gives him a chiseled jaw, broad shoulders, strong eyebrows and cheekbones.

Men want Women who are soft, demure and submissive looking. We don't want Sasha fierce or any of these other characters you ladies come up with for each other's fantasies.

This is OK but only works for certain Women:

When doing make-up you have to emphasize the feminine features and emphasize what you do have and not try and create features you were not born with. I can't tell you the details on how to achieve that as I am not:

1) French
2) Gay Man
3) A Woman or
4) Fashion expert

But consulting humans with the above attributed and preferably at least 3 of the above should point you in the right direction.

 

[Still FloW]

my confession #2:

I hate hearing good guys especially black men cry about the ''dime'' or chick they're lusting after doesn't want them, i mean at some point you have to realise that most of these girls dont deserve a good guy, and when you realise that you can save yourself the simping and hurt by actually putting your effort into a girl whos is more deserving, because im sure there are good girls who feel no guy wants them because these good guys are chasing aint shyt bytches..

most of these dimes fukk with aint shyt nikkas and use the good guys for emotional stimulus cause the aint shyt guy doesnt fulfill that part of their life, dont fall for their trap and end up being hurt..

ive made that mistake lots of times and wondered why they didnt want me, im wiser now and know these hoes dont deserve a good guy, ive found a number of close friends who are good girls who i appreciate more than anything... aight peace

 

[Blackout]

i was talking to 3 of my male cousins, black men are really depressed out here. i was kind of shocked. im going to try and be nicer and less judgemental in the future

dont encourage tlr bedwench obsessiom please

How does black men being depressed surprise you?

Racists whites been making black peoples life hell

 

[Reginald Noble]

My confession:

Following up on my earlier response I hate how Black Women have become masculine and domineering and actually encourage these looks and the behavior that goes along with it. There is strength in being submissive and supporting a Man - And this is all but a lost art among BW in Amerikkka today:

Then:

And now:

This is why I am not attracted to American (and Americanized) Women period...Too much flashy bravado attitude etc. Leave the aggression to Males and be what nature has intended you to be. And don't make the excuse they are in the spotlight you can be in the media and still retain humility and your roots - And not let fads dictate what you do and who you surround yourself with.

 

[Throwbacksample]

I confess I stole some skittles from 7-11 last weekend, the purple kind.

 

[miranda]

How does black men being depressed surprise you?

Racists whites been making black peoples life hell

good morning, how are you? the source and depth of the depression was what was surprising, not just the fact that they were depressed.

 

[NycStacked]

At the end of the day it's all about the ATTITUDE.
I wouldn't give a fukk how your cousins look if they on that sassy shyt - .

A lot of Black Women think Brothers are not attracted to them physically and that's why they don't approach, they don't understand how a Man's mind operates. The wrong attitude can make a Man dikk go limp instantly. This is why a lot of healthy young Men get ED these days. If a Woman wears a certain type of make-up I am not interested. Because I have learned to observe that as a key indicator whether she will have an attitude problem or not. This is something you may want to keep in mind in the future.

Make-up at the end of the day is for Women (along with 90% of Women's fashion both the clothing and accessories) but it is the primary thing which Men use to evaluate prospective targets. IF you are not getting the type of Men you desire you need to test and experiment what kind of clothes and make-up you are wearing. A little fat here and there can be lost, Breasts can be augmented as well as Ass, but attitude problems usually are not fixable so most high caliber Brothers won't touch you if you are wearing indicators of potential sassyness above the age of 21 or so - Or show body language that you are on that

Well...YEAH...I totally understand how attitude can attract or rather UN-ATTRACT potential suitors. As a happily married women in her early to MID-twenties, I concur that most women...AND men are single and miserable because of THEIR mindset...not because people think their UGLY. The ." It's not me...it's YOU".

Now, if you were one of the guys who came at me incorrect ( The idiots who run up one me and have the NERVE to ask me " Yo ma, are you happy with the hubby"...as if I'll say.." OMG NOooo, thank GOD you asked me..PLEASE let me forsake the man I choose to be the head of my household before the Lord and my family and go with you to su*k your d*ck. CALGON.....Take me away !!!)

...ummm...

As opposed to the numerous and much nicer men who say, " WOW, you're married, I missed my chance, but tell your husband he's a lucky man"....to which I say...AWWWW...thank you and thank you for respecting the ring and the vows that went with it.

You may get hit with a MAJOR attitude and a face that says

.

Another thing I personally couldn't stand, prior to marrying my husband was when a guy, would take what I say and not using it in correct context.
You are bringing up the ATTITUDE that certain B*thes have, and telling me that THEIR attitude makes them ugly. You're even telling me a woman's MAKE UP can cause you to turn away... WHich is COOL....but that has NOOOOO F*cking relevance to what I was saying about my cousins.

I made a commentary ( in reply to a comment) about the STIGMA that many people associate Black women with have Kids at young ages and out of wedlock. My cousins didn't and neither did I. They DO babysit like crazy.. HOW THE F*ck did you manage to fit your limp d*ck into that conversation???? I didn't need to know WHY you have ED...but that's between you and your MD to figure out. But thanks/no thanks for the info.

So before you tell me to , because they could POTENTIALLY be sassy....ever thought maybe you're reading these chicks wrong? Honestly, if some dude inquired about my makeup I would assume he loves the CO*k and is SUPER sassy his dame self...just saying, maybe you're checking for the wrong gender.