Black men deserve love without paying a bill first

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I love this. It helps me screen women who are genuine relationship material vs someone who is purely jump off material.
"What kind of music do you like?"
If she says meg the stallion, city girls, cardi b, chris brown, Rhianna, saweetie etc. ? Bussdown

"I heard a lot of people are on onlyfans to make ends meet cause of the virus"
'Yeah I considered making one'. Bussdown

"You got Twitter?"
Yup on there a little too much *giggle* bussdown.

"How old is the oldest guy you've dated?"
10+ years older than me. Bussdown.

"What were your parents like when you were growing up?"
I grew up with my mom and I had some step dads. Bussdown.

"What do you think of dudes who try to get your attention in the club by buying you a drink or always paying on the first date?"
Any answer OTHER than a variation on 'thats corny. I'm grown and have my own money i can buy my own drinks and I've paid for dates and drinks before. Why not?Bussdown.

"Has anyone ever called you a pick me?"
No thank goodness. I hate girls like that bussdown.


It sounds cruel, but you know whats cruel? Getting emotionally and financially abused. Women who use men and manipulate them are never held accountable or treated as the predators they are. In fact that toxic behavior is glorified and any men who express their pain at being hurt by women like that are branded as woman haters.

Knowing which kind of woman is the type you have fun with vs one you get serious with is a skill that many men are sadly lacking. Women do it too as you can see in the tweets. They know which men they will bust it open for in 10min and which men they will make work for it.

Part of the reason for men not knowing how to do this is the sheer amount of fatherless households in America. It's a tragedy, a lot of men are being raised by people who have no idea what it means to be a man. Lots of kids out their raised by single moms, educated by women in school and then in jobs where women are their supervisors. They fear masculinity because they've been conditioned to suppress it and think that tolerating abuse is a sign of security and confidence.

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They holla at chicks to keep the mouth piece ready.....they just don't get in relationship:yeshrug:


Told them since 12 years old NO SINGLE MOMS!! They will get f'ed up bring that shyt my way, God blessed me with 2 good looking 6'2 and 6'3 basketball playing boys :wow: ain't no way in hell I'm letting these demons take them down.

Got my oldest joining the Air force to knock out a quick 20 years and have them pay for his master's in computer science as well :whoo: gonna get a small business loan around year 10 to start his own business. It's all mapped out from my mis-steps. :sas2:
You’re doing a good job. :ehh:
 
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This is why the Gawds should have their own.

Back in the day i had a high profile
broad in the city drop by.
she got butt ass naked and hopped
in my bed which would have been cool
if i didnt have a heat wave coming over
in a hour.

me: get dressed....i gotta leave soon.:ehh:
her: I shaved and everthing....she's ready for you.:steviej:
me: me...you gotta go.:ehh:
her: so you got that bytch L^&*% coming over huh?:usure:
me: get dressed.:ehh:
her: make me leave.:stopitslime:
*cops knock at the door*
her::patrice:
me: remove her from my domicile.:ehh:
cop: ma'am you live here:unimpressed:
her::francis:
me: good job fellas.:smugbiden:

this is why i'm so cold with broads.
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This is why the Gawds should have their own.

Back in the day i had a high profile
broad in the city drop by.
she got butt ass naked and hopped
in my bed which would have been cool
if i didnt have a heat wave coming over
in a hour.

me: get dressed....i gotta leave soon.:ehh:
her: I shaved and everthing....she's ready for you.:steviej:
me: me...you gotta go.:ehh:
her: so you got that bytch L^&*% coming over huh?:usure:
me: get dressed.:ehh:
her: make me leave.:stopitslime:
*cops knock at the door*
her::patrice:
me: remove her from my domicile.:ehh:
cop: ma'am you live here:unimpressed:
her::francis:
me: good job fellas.:smugbiden:

this is why i'm so cold with broads.
UKVu0t8.gif
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I didn’t read the whole thread, but you men are paying bills for a woman you don’t love? I can understand a date or two (women should pay too).or even helping out your home girl. But paying a whole ass bill? Like cell phone?cable?

:camby: You were making it by before he was there. Keep doing what you were doing.


:mjcry: I’m sorry brehs, we’re not all money hungry monsters


But the 2020 Britannica Encyclopedia is on sale for $800.00

:hubie: Just throwing that out there

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People rarely “love” now a days without getting something out of it. No one is just loving because it’s cool. Just a sign of the times.

:mjcry: Is that what we’ve become as modern humans?

I love because it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside :hug:.I have someone to cry with and to go through obstacles with

:mjcry: Ima go hug his snoring ass (that’s why I’m up:mjlol:)
 
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